If the young lady is reading this, I hope that you find some sort of solace and hope in this tough time. Your town stinks a lot right now, and I would love to hear that they get their crap figured out.

Oh, poor thing. Let her be herself! Another reason (reason #623,425) I cannot watch Dance Moms. The parents just don’t seem to care about what their kids want, just the fame they can leech off of them. It is really sad. My sisters love the show. I don’t get why.

Really, a Frat, in fact SAE, did something racist? What!

And at my college, SAE was the hugely bad frat. We even had a shorthand of “Sexual Assault Expected” for the frat. I let a ton of new young ladies know about it when they asked me: “Don’t go to parties there, don’t be alone there, don’t take any alcohol from any of them. If you need help, ever, go over to ZBT, they…

I’m lurking a little bit, and noticed that no one else had said what I was thinking.

I’m glad to hear that they were able to remove everything! Cancer is the absolute worst, so you rocking this is wonderful.

This makes me so sad, because Renner used to do it for me. Hearing that he is a dick, and that he can’t even be cool enough to call out crappy behavior just makes me sadder and sadder. Every new foot-in-mouth problem just makes me sadder and sadder. He looks and acts more frat-bro-y every time I see him. It is a…

I actually think this is from her VMA performance with Robin Thicke in 2014/2013. Which makes it even more amazing.

So many gifs, so little time.

I keep telling myself that it was logical. You never want to think that a friend would sexually harass women in such an aggressive way. It is easier to believe that and hate the person than it is to actually listen. I’m still not to happy about it, but that is the best that I have.

Yay! Congrats!

I think you’ve gotten some really solid advice here: counseling (at least for yourself), looking at other angles for why this is going on, looking at possible affairs on your husbands part, etc.

Hey all!

I was coming to comment on this (about 6 hours ago). By saying the truth (which is that the three brodudes are probably saying that and much worse, but that I think they are dumb if that was even going through their heads). Something like: “Unfortunately, they probably are, but if that is the case then they are dumb,…

Alright, I’m late again!

Eh, you can do the same thing! You just say that everyone is going to be working together. We may interrupt one another or give more input in other terms and that is okay.

Oh yeah. It saves us all a lot of pain. I can’t imagine how it would be if that hadn’t gone in that way.

Congrats! Good for you!

Well, I’d go the opposite route. I say you tell her the next time you see her how sorry you are for all of the trouble, and you would love to see all the comments from the students if possible. It makes you look really good—she sees that you want her input, which makes her feel good, and you make her feel like she has…

Slytherin all day, erry-day. I do have some Hufflepuff and some Ravenclaw qualities (kind, and a little out there), but my ambition and cunning is so strong.