Dude, this person might actually have more insight that you do, being a stripper herself. She's saying pretty clearly that these things change the parameters of the transaction in a way that gives her less control over her WORK in her WORKPLACE. Your response just put straw arguments in her mouth;

Hello! Actual, real life stripper here. You seem to know (or think you know) a lot about the business I work in so I'd like to share my perspective as a laborer, as opposed to customer. Clients come in all shapes, sizes, personalities, and personal sexual preferences. Some fall in love with you, some realize it's a…

I'm...confused. I think I need Hugo to explain to me if these are feminist or not.

Your mom must be a blogger.

So...maybe this guy just wanted a finger bang?

I was set up like that. I was on a first date with a guy and we were walking downtown and I happened to see a jewelry store with a really beautiful display. So I paused and looked at it admiringly, as I always do when I see nice things like cars, art, etc. Then he said, "busted!" Apparently, he knew that this jewelry…

"Literally cascading" had me laugh out loud.

Mine were weird about my boyfriend (now husband) also and I hear you on being the good influence on a younger sibling. The whole situation was bizarre because I couldn't stay at his house (his parents had no issue, we were both in college) and he couldn't stay at my house, but my younger sister's boyfriend had been…

I'm 26, DudeJeans is 28, we've been together almost 4 years and have lived together most of that time and my parents have visited us multiple times and stayed in our house. But when we visit them, he sleeps in my brother's room and I sleep in a guest room. They *used* to be conservative about not living together until…

I'm 26, my boyfriend is 31, and my mom still barely lets us sleep in the same room/bed when we visit them for a weekend. Honestly, if my parents had allowed this in high school, I probably would have felt too weird anyway. I'd take the backseat of a chevy on a rural dirt road over a bed a few rooms away from my…

I'm currently dealing with this situation. My daughter is 15. I was 15 when I got pregnant with her, after asking my mom for birth control and being told I was too young to have sex.

We just had the Implanon put in her arm after finding out she's starting having sex with her boyfriend of 2 and a half years. I'm more…

You guys do know that something else happened on Twitter today, right?

All I've wanted through his whole thing is for her to get the help she clearly needs. It's (hopefully) finally happening. I'm happy. I hope she comes out of it well and on the top of her game again.

I find it curious (though admittedly, I know very little about the American mental health system) that the judge issued a conservatorship to her doctors but not to her parents, who are actively seeking one. If the decision was deferred pending further information, doesn't this emergency hearing at the hospital count…

I don't know how her lawyer was able to constantly tell everyone that she was fine. I know that is his job, and what she was paying him for, but I really don't know if I could do that if I were in his position. What is a lawyer's responsibility to his clients well being? It seems like a murky area.

This is completely unrelated but I must know, am I really in the black or do people just like my posts today? Have I finally been accepted? Please, tell me I'm in the club. I really want to be in the club. Can you see me???!?!?!?!?!?

I won't go see "Her," but would if there were a question mark in the title. And if the tagline were, "Is she funny or something?"

If only the world had some kind of group of men who were angered by the way patriarchy hurt men, and were interested in organizing around those issues to make life better for both men and women. Men who were activists for "men's rights", if you will.