There are lots of resources about interracial/transracial adoption, if you care to read them.

I bet if he’d said “nice sandals”, it wouldn’t have made you feel squirmy. Compliment the accessories, not the body.

I’d say commenting on anything from the neck down is probably a no-no, the most I’ll do (if my inner introvert is sleeping) is compliment a co-worker if she has a new hairdo, but mostly I keep conversation on the task at hand or maybe whatever is going on in the news(again if my inner introvert is out to lunch)...

4. We no longer have many Black people at my place of employment and even less Black men working here. I have a Black male co-worker who has been getting harassed by White women co-workers. It’s been happening for more than a decade. He doesn’t even like them coming to his extremely secluded office. He knows what the…

Right, cats act like it’s really killing them not to tell Jen from 3 cubicles over how nice her tiddays look in that blouse. Just say good morning and keep it moving cuz.

King Beauregard is in the habit of complimenting cashiers on their nails, if they are decorated. Not even hitting on them, it’s just a pleasant thing to do. It’s easy to say “ooh, I like your nails!” as the cashier is handing a bag of groceries to you. They went to the trouble to look nice, you’re noticing the…

My fellow men. I will pass words from my father that were probably passed down from his father. In these times, use it as an edict; a mantra even. Live your life by these words and you shall prosper:

Like taking two seconds to ask “Hey do you want to go outside and play? You up for that?” instead of jamming some fingers down the other’s throat.

Yes, I think claiming Aziz’s career is near destroyed, he’s the victim of revenge porn, men are being criminalized, the MeToo movement is now wayward, misrepresenting stats, and calling a whole generation of young women “weak” can be characterized as shrieking histrionics. And that’s a very restrained descriptor. tysm

SHE NEVER SAID YES

You’re 100% wrong. And if we are being honest why would you want to initiate sex with someone who isn’t 100% into it? My partner not being into it would make me soft (sorry). I would’t “go harder to the hole than I should have” cuz that sounds like rape. On my first date with my fiancee (pictured above) we went back…

In what world does saying “I’m uncomfortable with this” not mean stop? How is that ambiguous? If you told someone you were uncomfortable with something they were doing would you not mean that they should stop doing that thing that made you uncomfortable?

My view is that the reason men are reacting so badly to this accusation is that most guys who see themselves as decent people can easily look at Weinstein and think “I’ve never done something so awful and disgusting” but they hear this sort of accusation and they start to realise they have done this so it can’t be…

I have noticed that a lot of the cherry-picked quotes directly from Grace’s account that many sites have used seem to mysteriously skip over the parts where she recounts directly telling him that she was uncomfortable or physically recoiling from him (how is that subtle exactly?). Although way too many people have…

The pedants on twitter were kick to point out that her name is Danish, which just so happens to be a ferry ride away from Norway. Any other day of the week you know this woman would happily break down how she’s 50% Danish, 20% Swedish, 18% Norweigan...etcetera, etcetera like you asked her to recite the white Book of…

“When in distress just play stupid. Somebody will feel sorry for you”-White Women’s Book of Bullsh*t: Becky Chronicles 10:1-8.

White women: lying about what they know since forever...

Noodles all day! You can do so much with them. And noodles are fun to eat.

ok but here’s where i’m confused. how come you’ve never had steak umms and how come you can’t remember if you’ve had noodles? these are things i can recall easily like how much money i have in my bank account or my mom’s birthday

Ramen. When the water boils drop an egg in and add mixed frozen vegetables along with the noodles.