What the fuhh is this "reference folder"? On your "computer?" For hairz?

Having the number show up in front of you does make a difference, I think. When you're in the depths of despair, every little task can seem overwhelming as fuck, like, literally impossible, including the process of trying to find somewhere to get help. But logging onto facebook (which let's be real, people will…

There's a great documentary on Netflix called Somm, all about people who preparing for the test to become master sommeliers. And they talk about literally tasting/sniffing all of the things. The one guy is like, "hey you know you're not born knowing what fresh lilac, a crushed lilac, and a rotten lilac smell like. You…

Same!! And I've been married now for just over a year, and whenever one of us is sick or has an abnormally late/early bedtime/wake up call, we're like "ummm I think maybe I'll just go sleep in the guest bed. You know, for you. So I don't wake you." Then we just admitted to each other that we both sleep so incredibly…

yes, yes you are completely right about this. I'm one of the lucky ones doing just one person's job and no more. Thanks for reminding me about that awesome exploitative practice of intentionally understaffing.

I have two high-needs dogs, and being like "dang, I wish I could, but the pups have already been in their kennels for 8 hours, I gotta go home!" is one of the biggest perks of having two high-needs dogs.

Where do you work and can I work there please.

Ughhh yaaaaas! I can get my work done in 8 hours. In fact, I can go above and beyond what is required/expected of me in 8 hours. It's a lot of time. A woman in my office spends a ton of time reading articles and sending me funny links and then constantly stays late and then things she deserves some kind of special…

my husband and is out of town right now and I could NOT BE MORE EXCITED FOR A SOLO WEEKEND. I shall:

I mostly hate Piper because of how much of myself I see in her. I'm a 26-year-old privileged white woman and that's probably EXACTLY how I would act in prison, and having a light shone on that part of myself is hard to watch. Let's get rid of Piper so I can stop engaging in this reflection of how much of a not-great…

True, it's mostly about the being a dick thing haha.

Haha. I so rarely get to use my Dutch that I couldn't resist. It is a language full of dark magic, so you were smart to run.

Has anyone else here read the glorious and batshit crazy book "Geek Love"? There's a cult in it that has a similar sort of thing, where members willingly get their limbs amputated and for men it includes castration. Super fucked up and fascinated to contemplate. Terrifying that this is a real thing though.

Deze dingen zijn heel gek.

#HupOwlland is the best hashtag I've ever seen.

I don't think they're especially friendly but they're also not especially hostile (like the French or Italian). They're just pretty "meh whatever oh you need directions go this way meh meh. I speak perfect English so I can help you k bye mehhh."

...thank god for hoarders.

It's all about having a bicycle, people. The zombies can catch you running and the cars will soon be irrelevant. Get yourself a bike, ride somewhere kinda deserted, you're set.

Yeah what the actual fuck was that?! I already had a bad taste in my mouth when Sean Penn walked out, and then he makes an immigration "joke"? That comes off as actually being pissed that someone who isn't from the US won? Seriously. Seriously.

Thanks!!! You're right, it really does seem like there's no one out there doing polyamory, or you just hear about kind of weird people doing it in the news once in a while - it really feels like it's just happy monogamous couples and then me, not fitting in. Thanks for helping to normalize the whole thing a bit! I'm…