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I would like to tattoo "get the mack on track" somewhere on my body, or perhaps just make business cards.

Mine aren't so creative.

I am 1000% sure that Andrew Jackson and Thomas Jefferson would have sent texts like this in the 1800's. Except they'd be peppered with the N-Bomb.

Look for my coming illustrated story book for man children, Is Your Mack Whack? Get It Back On Track.

this is why all parents should monitor their kids and convos. like not to stop the mack, but to get the mack on track.

I'm a firm believer in calling out a kid's shit - and calling it what it is. I also give him dating advice. "Dude, this girl texted you 300 times this weekend. Take the fucking hint already and ask her out." <—direct quote

Speaking as a straight white guy, if other straight white guys are saying this and not getting at least pepper-sprayed for it, things apparently aren't hard enough.

You have no idea how deep this goes! I just quit AA in May after having worked there for 2 years. It's not uncommon for several female employees to be living at Dov's house at any given time. One of the girls collects 60k from payroll and has an office at the factory headquarters, yet has no job title and no official…

If it gives people the warm fuzzies to think this was a decision based on morals or ethics, then by all means. Wrap yourself up in that blanket of delusion.

She has a daughter named Bee, who most sensibly is in grad school for law, I think. Bee has stated publicly she would never be a model nor work in the fashion industry.

I read the NY Magazine's story this weekend and just felt it was dismissive of those who have come forward. I so respect you for speaking up and speaking out today. My how I wish we can create a different environment for our next generation.

I also have some strong feelings about this as I am a photographer and…

I'm great at flirting/recognizing flirting with people I have absolutely no interest in but when it comes to people I actually like I am sort of hopeless on both fronts. So yes I concur with this whole thing.

"Let us have intercourse in the manner of humans."

Your comment really resonates for me. I am an expat aid worker and for a while, was in a position of authority. I was 27 and responsible for people's lives in a war zone, reporting to clients like the World Bank and the British Government. It was intense, I lived in a dark, big house alone but for the two teenaged…

I hear you. Laughter is a totally normal defensive reflex. Laughing defuses situations and is an automatic reaction when something is unusual/unexpected. I have situations in my past where I laughed when I should have ran screaming, and it took a long time to realise that my laughter didn't make me complicit/guilty…

I think there is a pretty complex set of reasons for a woman to send an e-mail like that, but none of them really make it seem okay to me.

i'm seeing lots of "they all do it" and "this is photography" all over this thread. it's just horseshit. there are plenty of photographers who DO NOT behave this way. my wife, Jill Greenberg, has never* asked anyone to suck her dick or otherwise exploited her position to hurt or take advantage of them. but the…

It's astounding, but very revealing, that NY mag makes some kind of distinction between being an abusive man and being an artist. As if being an abusive man is a fully paid up job in its own right, leaving no space for anything else. In fact what usually happens is that abusive men use their worldly power, fame,…

This is random, but I still remember reading a SPIN article about Fiona Apple in 97, and she was openly crying and upset with the photographer. Of course, it was Terry. She can be a mess, but I have no doubt he was exploitative as hell even way back then. The pictures are pretty sleazy, but that seemed standard…