Yeah, it's hard to generalize about this at all, and I don't know that it's true in most cases. I've just been pleasantly surprised by the guys I've been with who have really nice packages — maybe because I generally date sweet dorks anyway, who are people who are modest enough that even having a big dick wouldn't…

I'm curious about this too. The guys who I'm always attracted to are guys who are modest, kind sweethearts, and the lucky thing is that when it has reached the bedroom, they have mostly turned out to be very adequately endowed. Well endowed guys are not always running around flaunting it - sometimes it's the…

I was thinking the same? How did he make him snort cocaine in the pool?! How did it not get wet?! Can you snort wet cocaine? I know nothing of these things ;-P

My question about this story — how did he get him to snort cocaine when they were in the pool? Didn't the cocaine get wet?!

It's probably for product shipping. Doesn't she review luxury products to promote on the blog?

WTF is it with making goddamn coffee? People are fucking adults, and if they want it, they should be able to make it themselves. I completely roll my eyes when this "duty" is in anyone's job description.

Ugh! Sometimes it's difficult to parse the advice that people want to give you between stuff that is actually useful to you, and stuff that just represents their own beliefs and insecurities. Example: My senior year of college, I had an individual meeting with my older female professor for a writing class I was…

Thanks for saying this, and I agree with you. I think confidence is an individual thing, and yes, we can chastise men for theirs, or their displays of "over confidence," but really I think women can find the same confidence for themselves no matter how men act. Maybe it's more a matter of finding a way that works…

See, I get this, but what I don't like is when the person who is hungry and angry expects you to fix it for them. Like, they get angry, and are like, I need something to eat, and look at you like everything is on you to take care of them, lest you want an angry beast on your hands.

I think it's an issue of home/apartment renters needing to be maybe a little more observant of who they're renting to, maybe more than regulation. Maybe there are some in depth questions they can ask as a part of the screening process. When I booked something for the first time on Airbnb for later in the summer, I…

That makes sense to me, and I actually think prevents these sort of weird circumstances from happening. I just started using Airbnb for a trip I'm taking in the summer. I chose to use it because hotels close to the area I need to be are booked up and hella expensive. In both of the places I'm staying, the owners…

But a crappy regulated hotel is not your home, where you live, where you sleep. You're ok with murders in your apartment? Go right ahead!

do we have the same ex-friends? :)

Yeah, but people aren't under any obligation to placate people who are making their lives miserable. Some people don't need to dump friends, because they're all able to take steps to work things out. But some people aren't willing, and to stop a relationship because of that is ok.

Lol — gotcha. I didn't actually watch the video ;) (grins sheepishly)

Serious question — How does one determine that the inclusion of a black subject or character is "token," when it is generally desired these days to be as inclusive and diverse as possible in different forms of media?

Yes yes yes, we do deserve the money to pay professional labor. You're right about that 100%.

You know what's also great about women filmmakers? They are totally willing to talk to you because they know how marginalized they are in the industry.

$3300 - $8300 isn't bad, and if you're strategic about it, it can get you a long way. It may help you pay your rent for a couple of months while you're writing something, or help you secure the rights to something you want to develop.

After spending a while in different aspects of production, I'm actually getting ready to go back to school for an MFA program specifically so I can get more into the producing area.