At what point do these yellow flags add up to a red flag? The dude said chivalrous and that she cums 80% of the time. Like if I don’t cum 100% of the time either during foreplay or actual sex or you get me off after you cum boy by.

You suspect she’s lyng. But you’ve also demonstrated an outsize need to please her.

In no way is the rest of the letter not as cringe-inducing. It’s actually way more insidious. He’s saying that he can’t even watch blurred out sex acts. And that OMGyes is shilled for by man-hating feminist. I mean, c’mon.

“we both went into it with the understanding that our romantic relationship would be over when she left”

But what does that statement MEAN? Because a lot of men, even those here on Kotaku, use those very words in a way meant to be derogatory towards women. There are many ways to question the intended target of an application or game without resorting to loaded language. He could have made specific critique of the…

you’re single, right?

How surprising that Capt-Dunce is announcing

Yeah, like I get the “Am I doing something wrong” panic, that can easily happen even if you objectively know facts about female sexuality, but christ dude, an app about helping women enjoy sex makes you worry about feminist leaning man haters? He has some serious issues with women.

I’d add, even it were years, a break up is a break up. Unless you got an STD, leave them alone. Deal with your shit and get over it. *Nothing* is gained by voicing your displeasure with a break up.

The insecurity of some dudes when it comes to their proficiency in bed is truly, truly mind boggling. His wife brings him something that excites her and could make sex a lot more fun for her, and he has a panic attack because it doesn’t revolve around him? The prospect of actually learning about her anatomy and how it…

...But he’s so CHIVALROUS all the time!

I wouldn’t say the rest of the letter was normal or not cringe inducing. After bragging about how chivalrous he is, he has a full on panic attack that his dick isn’t his wife’s favorite thing in the world, and takes a shit on “man hating feminist types.”

Also, person number two (Which I’m satisfied by the answer to, but I’m still nosy and opinionated)

i could feel a phantom fedora tipping on my head while reading it. gave me shivers...

Yes... and Hell, yes. What a tool.

more like she never “broke up” with her “ex”.

So let me represent my process of reading this post.

Jeez... this line, “I treat her very well, I give her preference in nearly everything, and am chivalrous (not just an act) every single day.” made me cringe so hard that I’m pretty sure I’ll permanently be several inches shorter. It sounds amazingly similar to the way most of the “nice guy” complaints start, so I was…

Foreign exchange girl never liked you all that much. Sorry.

“The only info on the internet about this OMGyes are shills, and feminist leaning man hater types.”