He couldn’t call the police - so the natural conclusion was to choke her and throw her around, right?

Are you sure that a Black man who openly prefers White women is the one that the Sista’s need to be starting a revolution for?

I’m not anti-porn per se, more like anti-people focusing on people in porn as some sort of vanguard of new feminism, when it would be much better if those same people got a university education for free and went on to do something productive.

It’s very strange to me. Feminists agree that patriarchy exist and that misogyny still shapes modern society. Third-wave feminists analyse (as they should) all aspects of society and the consequences that power imbalances between men and women have on our behavior, on the position of women in society, on relationships…

Yes, it is, but prepare to be eviscerated on Jezebel for daring to speak this obvious truth. Also prepare to have the insult “TERF” laid upon you, thereby making you an object, and OK to attack in obscene and ad hominem verbiage. You CANNOT tell these women that we realised like 40 years ago that all porn is bad for…

But isn’t that like saying that because Tom’s of Maine is an ethical company that the way the vast majority of products operate is pretty terrible and messed up? Notice you outlined the problem with the majority of porn and then your final sentence was basically “but there is some porn that is not like that” Well, is…

is this sort of degeneracy not the inevitable outcome of what third-wave feminism espouses? When will people realise that all this sex-positive porn stuff is just more lies for the masses and that ploughing a field is way better than plowing a butt?

OMG are you real or a genius satire of a politicized third wave woman of color?

Just because she’s a passive aggressive nightmare doesn’t make him any less of a piece of garbage. Both things can be true. Baker’s potential to get reamed by the justice system doesn’t make him any less of a bad person.

I’m black and I couldn’t agree with you less.

She’s an asshole and he’s an asshole. But he put hands on her and it’s his shitty luck that he didn’t call the cops instead of acting and reacting like an asshole when she put hands on him.

seems pretty clear this guy is as much an asshole as she is. pretty likely he hit her. we live in a society where hitting a (typically much) smaller woman is not acceptable.

I would suggest his (and hers) is not the hill to die on, no matter your cause.

Picking up some carry-out and not getting anything for me is a shitty boyfriend. Near-drowning me is much more than that. Much more.

If you’re into pretend rape, it’s because you’re into rape. No one could say they were “interested” in fake bestiality, or fake child porn, or fake gay porn, without everyone thinking they were actually interested in the real versions, but people lose their senses when it comes to raping adult women. “Oh, it’s just…

How the fuck are dudes busting a nut to even pretend rape?

In Rambo, Stallone is not actually shooting people. In porn, Deen is actually hitting and otherwise dominating women.

Well, I can hardly blame anyone for getting a rosy picture of the porn industry from Jezebel.

You cannot be serious.

You can cry “consenting adults!” all you want, but the kind of dudes who actually want to act out domination and forced penetration are not gonna be the kind to, shall we say, “leave it all on the field.” Nobody can compartmentalize as well as they think they can.

While many of the allegations against Deen are new, the pattern is alarming.