Ok, true, he is somewhat acknowledging that. However, "nicely" cooing "fuck you baby" is not going to be recorded positively. As you said, it's all about the nonverbals. If you feel compelled to coo "fuck you" to a baby, you have some "negative" nonverbal shit going on inside you that the baby will absolutely picking…

Actually Lous CK has no idea what he's fucking talking about. We are born with implicit, nonverbal memory and these memories get lit up as adults all.the.time. Since they were encoded before the left brain, explicit, narrative parts of our brains come online, they are remembered nonverbally, in a "felt sense". And we…

did not know that...

2Pac, Keep Ya Head Up

GREAT question. Always and forever this one.

Maybe you hate the dudes who you hear this shit from more than you hate hearing fuck all the time. Cause they sound pretty terrible.

No, I don't need to clarify.

Saying the other posted's response was "super bitchy" and "opens you up to criticism and judgement about your lifestyle" is judgmental in itself. Pot/kettle scenario.

Good for you and your husband. Not all of us have to want or appreciate relationships like yours.

This could totally be animalistic, but there's no doubt in my mind this is also this dude's own shit. That primal instinct to protect your kids from harm is one thing; it's that he's equating his daughter dating other people as though that is some kind of threat or harm that tells me this dude has some of his own shit…

No, he isn't literally doing what I described. He's literally making death threats to imaginary boys and girls who might one day date his daughter and couching it in his parental love for her. Publicly working through it via a slam would involve taking ownership that he feels this rage, questioning it, being curious…

Except these aren't just feelings of love for his daughter. There is no doubt in my mind that kind of "protective" rage against an imaginary dude your daughter might date one day is steeped in this dad's own unresolved shit, as well as shaped by cultural norms/expectations/values/etc. Yes, all parents get that mama…

Yes, this is disturbing and looks ridiculous. But these women are just trying to fit in and be accepted as much as the rest of us are. This montage just shows the lengths we're willing to go to get it.

Wrong.

1. Minimum wage is not a living wage.

After a loooooong weekend at my restaurant, this has become mine, too. :)

I wouldn't bite my tounge in a situation like that, but I would leave a tip. Maybe 10-15%. Most importantly, though, ask to speak with a manager.

ahahahahahaahaha "tips only supplement their wages" Get a fucking clue.

God, I wish I had stories like these! I can't think of any good ones of my own, but I did once work with a server who waited on the most rude, obnoxious table. Loud as hell, complaining about every little thing, insinuating the server was stupid for making "mistakes", which weren't mistakes, they just (purposefully,…

That is AWESOME!!!I wish our managers would do stuff like that. We have a regular Friday night table who routinely stiffs the server and are just downright rude and nasty to all the staff, and the managers refuse to say anything to them. Good for you and your manager!!