Old tape residue from where I imprudently used masking tape to edge while painting and then left it on waaaaay too long. I used a hairdryer to get off the tape but it left behind sticky nasty noticeable residue that bugs stick to and die. It has ruined the clean edge effect I was going for. Oh, and it's on my ceiling…

Um, sorry to hear that you've had bad experiences? I like hearing that I am being sexy in the moment, I guess some women don't....

In the mood, honestly a few beers never hurts. Also I love a back and shoulder rub that turns sensual. For the sex... A GOOD VIBRATOR!!! The key seems to be to get myself out of my head and into my body- to stop thinking and then start feeling. Also, I like it when he gets verbal. Seriously, every woman wants to hear…

I'm going to try this. I think the key overall is more communication :)

Okay so one: thank you for your honest answer! You have totally validated my instincts about this. But now I ask you, could you tell if she/he/it was just phoning it in? I want him to be satisfied and I want it to be with me so sometimes I put out even when I'm not really in the mood and feel like this is good marital…

And guilt is definitely the opposite of an aphrodisiac. Lemme check the interweb for the correct term... Okay not gonna do better then turnoff but still, nothing makes sex less fun than guilt... just ask the Catholics!

No, I'm right there with you and yet we keep coming back for more! For some reason, it seems like a good idea. Maybe the notion that the cleanup is a given? Dunno. One exception: OCEAN SEX! It's the motion of the ocean baby.

Really valid point. In my reply elsewhere I brought that up because I definitely struggle with this balance. The thing I've noticed is the first kind of sex, the I'm not in the mood but could be usually amounts to some pretty all around good and satisfying sex. The second however, feels like a chore and while it…

PREACH! 5 month old baby, husband first year surgical resident, me looking for work.... It just rarely seems to happen! Also can we talk quality over quantity here because sometimes I do have the sex just to have the sex. Did it recently in t he shower and you know what: meh. Now, get me in the right mood and willing…

Yes there are some disorders... there are tons of disorders. There is no way ALL statements can account for EVERY SINGLE ONE. In general, barring a rare and not widely known hormonal or chromosomal condition, Cis-women's hips flare at puberty. Also, human beings tend to grow vertically as they age, barring a hormonal…

Hello, I came on here to say this only to find you'd said it already and quite artfully at that.

Genius! I just thought people were idiots but I bet it's a little bit of both!

Prolapse fuck, as in prolapsed vagina? That seems like an oddly specific thing to want to watch but also if your vagina has fallen out, what are we fucking? The vaginal mesh?! It's just fascinating how specific people's perversions get...

I don't think self-esteem applies to this woman - she feels broken to me. It hurts to watch but I think she has serious personality disorders and I really fear for her child's future emotional well-being. Also, yes this site is my sole source of Farah news and I'm ashamed to say I always click! It's like a train…

Yes and reading books that could challenge their worldview, broaden their minds, and develop critical thinking skills because then we'd have an educated populace who wouldn't stand for this sort of BS! I wish. God SC gives the Carolina's a bad name, though NC is pulling its weight now thanks to our obscenely right…

The dark horse thing irritates the heck out of me!

I didn't vote for Hillary because I was leery of another Clinton in the White House. I was really excited by the idea of a new kind of politician who was going to be a break from business as usual/politics as usual mold we'd gotten into plus after Bush the Elder and Bush Jr., I wanted a break from the same political…

By the by, I always thought Oral Roberts was a dirty sounding name for a Christian University. It sounds like one of those ridiculous sex terms like Dirty Sanchez or Crazy Carlos. An Oral Roberts would result in you having the crazy eyes that Michelle Bachman sports: you'd never blink again for fear of getting Oral…

Damn my eyes! Of course I had to google "lemonparty" then Urban Dictionary introduced me to tubgirl and goatse. Some things you can't unsee bro! (I don't have the time to insert the appropriate Rafi gif but the point stands).

Dear Lord! I mean if you're just trying to figure out what sex is, that Sleeping Beauty Trilogy could really muddy the issue. I mean the standard: "when two people love each other and want to make each other feel really good and show their love" just does not cover the panoply of sexual excess found in these books.…