You’re right. I’m still not sure if I can ever do “forever” because everybody is the worst, including me I’m sure. The best we can hope for is someone whose annoying traits don’t make us feel too stabby.

Yes. The fantasy isn’t the problem, it’s how it was communicated. Very scary sign that this person does not respect boundaries.

No. Choking is not standard and should never be done with a partner you are “casually seeing”

This. Even someone into this kind of play, you don’t discuss something like presumed consent situations 1. over text and 2. with someone you don’t know is into domination/power play.

Run. As a mid-30s lady who was rather recently dating. And as a submissive who is in a loving, respectful relationship where BDSM is on the table. Nobody should say that when you are just starting to talk dirty. As a first fantasy share, it’s creepy. Another response also said this: everything past the vibrator is a…

Did you read the article? It’s because not everyone has the same skin. If I did what you’re describing, my skin would be red and dry and itchy. Your post sounds very judgemental.

I’m the same. Couldn’t go a whole day on 500 calories, but generally have an 8-10 hour eating window depending on the day. It works for me. I don’t gain or lose weight.

Where has anyone found a job that gives a raise?! Jesus. I’d kill a man for a raise. I’m pretty sure they’re myths, like the Argonauts. I can haz raiz now?

That 36% approval rating has to come from somewhere...

Boozy vacation FTW

I was so enraged by those interruptions! No idea how Ted stays so calm throughout. Hannity’s face demands a smack just sitting there, when he speaks its mind-boggling that anyone can resist.

I’m not sure if its Jean Luc Picard or my own father or what, but nothing impresses me more than someone who can be that fucking measured and bad-ass at the same time. How do you do that? If I’m riled to such bad-assery, I can’t control myself enough not to yell and sound irate.

Thank you :)

Thank you - this community has been a real solace TBH :)

Hi PoopIssues. I’m feeling really failure-y lately and this struck a chord. I’m very sorry you’re feeling down on yourself. Internet hugs to you, hang in there. Message me if you’d like to talk or anything.

My sister stayed for 15 years in a miserable marriage. I cannot comprehend why, but suspect this has a lot to do with it. And the myth that “staying together for the kids” is a good idea.

But... How would i have an excuse to drink way too much if they were in single serving boxes?!

Well, those of us who haven’t had a raise since our high school after school jobs think Jake Tapper is pretty sexy.

I can’t believe you said that. My brain will never be able to erase it.

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