I don’t know man. Lately all the showers I am invited to just demand diapers, which pisses me off. Why do I need to carry a pack of stuff for your kid to pee in? At this point, can’t I just send you a gift card in your email and call it a day?

Well, she used to think she was part black, so she probably also used to think she could use some racial slurs...

Not so much accused of as proven to. Like I said, I have a shitty little recipe blog and read a lot of shitty little recipe blogs. It is perfectly ok to, at this level, not create your own recipes - though I personally do give attribution, as in “adapted from so and so” if all I’ve done is add vanilla or whatever.…

All her recipes are just stolen from church cookbooks. Which would be fine if she were just a rando with a blog, but it is not fine if she has a cooking show and is getting credit for “creating” those recipes.

I saw the original It when I was like 8. And my mom was strict cause 9 1/2 Weeks came out when I was 11 and all my classmates saw it. Parents would just rent videos and leave them lying around so kids would watch whatever.

He is probably white, too. White men literally ruin everything.

No shower for child #3 makes sense for us plebs whose kids wear hand me downs. There is no way this child will sleep in North’s or Saint’s old crib or play with their old toys, come on now.

Fuck your brothers. They should have done their own laundry and your mom’s, while they were at it.

I think the people who give them the stuff care more that they got the stuff and maybe didn’t write about it, than if they did write about it and then sold it?

There are dudes here arguing that they don’t understand that asking a coworker “Hey, wanna watch me jerk off?” in 2017 is wrong. Yet I somehow have a few men in the George Takei post arguing that most men understood consent and getting permission before touching people in 1981. There are men right here who are having…

The only surprise coming from a Trump is it wasn’t golden.

Expressing sexual interest: “Would you like to go out sometime?”. Jesus. How did we get to this.

It really shouldn’t be hard. Go out after work. Go to a bar. Try to fuck people you don’t work with. Or even try to fuck people from dating apps you don’t work with while at work, if you are deadset on not being productive, jeez.

Well, I wasn’t thinking of tit grabbing, though of course that happened. I just meant that no one, in the 80s or even early 90s, would think to *ask for permission* before trying for a kiss, for example. But yeah, starting out with touching boobs or genitals would be a scummy move, even back then.

I am not excusing it. On the contrary, I am saying I am 99.9% sure he did because people didn’t have a proper understanding of consent back then.

Did most guys understand, though? Cause I grew up knowing that going on a date meant the dude was gonna put the moves on you, physically touching you without prior consent. We were just hoping they’d listen to a “no” without it turning into rape, but the unconsented touching was gonna happen.

I am about your age (started college in 92) and that is what I was thinking. The conversation on consent was starting when we were in college, it was not there in the 80s at all. Listening to the “no” and not threatening people with a quid pro quo in workplace sexual harassment was the general understanding of being a…

Also, let’s be honest: it was 1981. If people right now still have a problem understanding that going on a date does not imply consent, what are the odds that a dude did in 1981?

I think it would be more akin to saying “All women are too polite”, which is pretty close to accurate: all of us women are raised to be too polite and not rock the boat - and the few exceptions are deemed insane. All men are raised to be complicit to the minority who is out there actively doing horrible things, to not…

Well we knew she wasn’t gonna reach Michelle Obama levels of amazing, but I was hoping for at least a Laura Bush level of quiet dignity... and her going around in a FLOTUS ball cap and looking like Natasha from Rocky & Bullwinkle ain’t it.