Sometimes you can't. I am sorry to break this to you (and my doctor was sorry to break it to me). I am 30 and will need surgery on my feet soon. I do not wear heels and have mostly been wearing flats and chucks all of my life yet my bones are growing where the shouldn't be. I do run a lot so that ma be speeding up the…

Haha. If it had been his stuff maybe I would have, but it was mine, I bought it and moved it there and it was my hard work for our relationship. I didn't want him to get any pleasure out of it, even the pleasure of me being arrested after a bonfire!

It felt petty because I didn't need or want any of it. I only wanted it back so they couldn't use it.

Good point. I guess the big difference is the cheating factor. She had been in the apartment while we were together and knew he was cheating on me. I got all of my stuff back within a month. I felt like such an idiot already, dragging it out even longer would have made me feel worse.

A good friend of mine told me to just forget about the stuff and move on and it was petty because I didn't need it. I think she just didn't want me to drag it out or have contact with him again since I was so devastated, but I couldn't even sleep thinking about them sharing my stuff. That's really what I focused on…

I had a boyfriend whom I basically lived with. We were together for over seven years. When he got his own apartment and I had moved in with new roommates, I took all my stuff over to his place because it was easier than him buying new stuff. This includes dishes, pots and pans, bedding, towels, etc. ... basic house…

This is so perfect! Totally hearted. I have done this so many times unfortunately with singers, actors and other "artists". This might be why I keep returning to my clean, unartistic, unpretentious, science geek boyfriend though he is an asshole, at least he doesn't smell like one.

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"I don't want any more kids to get confused about what's right and okay."

Nothing would be what it is because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary-wise; what it is it wouldn't be, and what it wouldn't be, it would. You see?

Thank you! All the comments I read about her downthread were praises about how awesome she is. Why does she think "girly talk" is women whining about men? I think "girly talk" is any conversation you have with another woman about common interests. I love girly talk! Unfortunately I don't have many girlfriends, I think…

Yes! Really I think it's the power dynamics. Though I have not read the book he sounds to me like a sociopath, romanticizing his actions and her pain, although I know I am biased having been in the same situation. Even just reading this about someone else stirs up my own shame and anger, having loved ones find out and…

I love the pic caption of Demi that says "drinking in public." Yes, that's how you know when you're in real trouble, you don't hide your drinking. Everyone in bars: You have a drinking problem, get help.

OMG! get out of my head. Bikini beach shirt is first thought I had.

And John C. Reilly. Really? ugh.

That counts as 1 item in my mid. They get weighed together and entered together right? I don't like using plastic bags for my produce but I think if it should go in one bag it is one item. Like 2 apples would be 1 item. Not 100 apples though because they couldn't be in the same bag.

Register a complaint at your local police station. When you go in they will take down your report and give you a case number for follow up. You should not have to feel unsafe in your own neighborhood. I have done this on more than one occasion including once for a stolen purse that I left unattended and another time…

Oh Myrna! You did lose control. I'm hearting you for trying though. I also don't see how you or CryptArc blamed the victim. No one said it was Jenna's fault and we all agree it is awful that she had to witness this and agree she should report it. The point is it was not and emergency so the police did not respond to…

I'm not a DWTS watcher either but aren't ladies on that show constantly having "wardrobe malfunctions"? So I thought that meant genitalia was on display. At least ladies genitalia. I thought that's probably why people still tuned in. Anyway none of their arguments make sense.

Dancing With People You May Have Heard Of just doesn't have the same ring. DWPYMHHO.