We are not. You can see that because we have different takes on the same issue. And the vocabulary is also different.

I live in Europe. What she says is pretty much true.

FLASHNEWS: You’re not supposed to do any of that.

Again, totally agreed! Not that I mind bribing them, I’m okay with it as long as at the end of the day I get the girl. Yeah, I would love someone who doesn’t need bribing, but with my luck in women that’s really very hard. :(

I totally agree!

You are right. :) Of course I’m not going to interfere with their life or try to break them up. That would be stupid.

I don’t. Can you describe it?

Try and click the star and see what happens. :) I hear if you click it three times it anti-stars. ;)

There’s plenty of single girls around. Unfortunately they’re single for a good reason.

So if the baby is unplanned what? It still means she cared enough about that man to risk procreation. (Unless it was a rape, which is a different, rare and problematic situation and not the case of this discussion).

I’m not second guessing it. I’m just showing her other options. Like when you have a computer and then at some point you need an upgrade because the old one just can’t run GTA V well. And you loooove GTA V. :)

It is very ambiguous because there is a huge difference between “I’m not interested” and “I’m not interested IN YOU”.

Hey, at least I sound better than you! :)

Idk in what society you live, but in mine 1) is the other way around. Society expects men to cater to women’s feelings.

2) is unfortunately very true, but only with douchebags. It’s sadly a part of life and one way or another you’ll bump into one of those guys.

Just wanted to point out there is a huge difference between “I’m not interested” and “I’m not interested IN YOU”.

Just wanted to point out there is a huge difference between “I’m not interested” and “I’m not interested IN YOU”.

You’ve said it better than I could have.

Oh, yeah! That too! Some girls don’t want to hurt our feelings so they just evade the answer as long as they can, ending up in hurting our feelings even more, unfortunately.

“I’m not interested” is too ambiguous. If she’d say to me “You’re too ugly”, “We don’t have that many things in common”, “I don’t like you because <insert reason here>“ I’d be content with the answer and just stop pursuing her. But when you’re being ambiguous the reaction will be unpredictable.

Women think differently…

Also, fun fact, for me the only thing that literally seals the deal is a child. If the woman has a child with someone else, that is, in my opinion, the supreme love declaration she made for that man. Therefore I have no place there and pursuing a relationship would be pointless.

Unless she’s a single mom. I’m okay with…