Agreed!! Now I wish they would just happen to ME! :)

This brings me SO much joy. The show was flawed, of course, but I still love it. (Notice I stopped at the show, because as far as I'm concerned, the movies do not exist.)

"bro" mitzvah? I can't.

Haha, I wasn't actually offended, no worries. And that's a good question. To be clear, I primarily worked in infant rooms, so that's going to be general feeding/playing/rocking to sleep across the board as opposed to curriculum the older ages were receiving in regards to differences. Nobody ever liked when I called…

Haha thanks for clarifying that was for others because I started rolling my eyes at the explanation. :) it's that 4:1 ratio. By law, we simply can't be open with more than 4 babies per teacher. I ALWAYS got hassled at every childcare job about being sick, but this one especially because it was inner city and they just…

I KNOW. It's a dark moment. I'm putting myself in timeout.

Oh god, thank you for this. I appreciate the inclusion of the second spreadsheet and the discussion about nobody requiring to have sex, man or woman. The comments at deadspin were all, "how hard is it to just give it up for him once in a while?" Maybe she didn't want to, and maybe the dude didn't want to, either.

"Well I watch out the front window of the trailer here"

Yeah! Why are they pointing at us??

I was going to say the same thing. Why are the outfits offensive? I think the bright color really brings the eye in for a closer look, while the old ads where every actor is wearing a different pattern gives off a messier vibe. Maybe it just seems unrealistic to have everyone wearing such intense colors, but is this…

Oh! Also, I was just trying to say there were a wide range of women represented in the video because the author seemed to insinuate there should've a wider selection. I didn't see the uproar she was describing.

I was referring to the specific fact that Pharrell took heat for the fact there were "no women of color" on his album cover. (One woman actually was biracial.) I didn't mean to insinuate that it was his duty to represent black people just because he is black, and I certainly agree that music video actors tend to be…

I am laughing so hard at your first sentence. I seriously can't stop.

I cannot add anything to your comment, I totally agree with everything you said. The only thing that comes to mind is, "if you're looking for a reason to be offended, you'll find one."

I know, right? Waiting for the Jez police to show up on my doorstep. :-/

Yay! This is so great, and so nice to see her name attached to a blip like this instead of ELLEN CHEATED ON PORTIA, SENDS HER TO REHAB, etc. etc.

You and I are on the same wavelength, because I just gave it a second watch, and what has been described as MALE GAZE seems to me to be a fun way for Pharrell to be in his own video without being the center of attention. He's playing the role of a director. Fuck, there's also a WOMAN sitting next to him in the…

Hahaha! I'm in my 30s, and regularly thankful that social media didn't gain popularity until I was smart enough to know better. That and I'm not famous so nobody gives a crap about me anyway!

RIGHT?? Good lord!

Also, these women are obviously professional dancers, or at least have had some training, because they are CLEAN with those moves. I totally agree about mining pop music. Some things can just exist on their own without needing to be dissected.