Ah, well, that sucks. I am sure you'll find someone else who is up for taking it to the next level while also fulfilling your kink needs :-)

Ooh, that sounds lovely! Thanks for the heads up!

I love my spouse and loved my grandfather as much as I'm capable of. I think that sense of closeness is consistent. I think my concern stems from the fact that I feel consistently distanced from family and friends that I think most people would normally feel more attached to. Does that make sense?

I think that Snookie played the reality tv game very well. I never really had any serious issue with the girl. She was a drunk, 20-something but nothing she did was outright terrible or malicious (that I'm aware of). Despite the fun of watching train wrecks on reality tv, I always hope they turn out okay.

You are the second person to encourage me to pop over to GroupThink. What / where is that?

Always trust your instincts. If that means not pursuing anything further, fine. But enjoy the sex!

Kathleen Madigan is funny but I don't know if she mentions gender stereotypes. I just like her imitations of drunk Irishmen.

I think it is really common to have mixed feelings about pregnancy. Especially when the memory of pregnancy and childcare is so fresh in the brain. I suspect these mixed feelings are scaring you because you are likely feeling like a good mom but are doubting whether you can be such a good mom to two. If you have your…

This is very interesting! I echo everyone else's request for you to stay safe.

Pick your favorite go-to recipes. Rotate them monthly. I typically do:

So, I've been stewing over this for a while now and still don't know exactly how to word it. I think the easiest way to do it is to just be blunt and as honest as I can.

I know absolutely nothing about performance art. Can someone tell me why an actor can't just leave? I'm not blaming nor am I casting doubt on the allegations. I really just don't understand why he was incapable of reacting to this situation.

My grandma always bought me black Barbies or dolls. I hated Barbies and I never understood why she bought me black ones since I knew exactly ZERO black people as a child. I guess it was her attempt to find the closest match since they didn't make Asian dolls at the time.

Sex, as in with a person or orgasms? Cause I'll chill with some toys and eat all the cheese I want. But if they include any form of sexual pleasure, then I have to go write a pro con list.

Can one twerk of one does not possess a voluminous derriere? Asking for a friend.

I like you.

I hate flying. the last time I was on a duel prop Bombardier, I cried the whole time while staring out the window at the spinning props. I'm a fucking nutcase! I like trains much more! Reserved Business Class is the way to go.

Ah, the sanctity of marriage!

We live in a fucked up world that automatically considers black boys over the age of 11 as a threat. We live in a fucked up world where parents of black boys have legitimate fears about whether their son(s) will make it into adulthood without suffering police brutality. Fucked up is all I can say; it is all just so…

I have a sneaking suspicion The Divine Miss M is speaking of Ariana Grande's performance in the Bang Bang video.