HidingOnIapetus
HidingOnIapetus
HidingOnIapetus

Absolutely. I am encouraging any who will listen to me to do this. This movie will be used by abusive partners to justify their actions, by abused women to excuse their partners behavior. This isn't OK. I am a huge advocate for kinky Sex, BDSM, anything that is sane, safe and consensual - this book & movie are are far

Please don't go to see this movie. It portrays a manipulative, abusive relationship. We can't have people watching this and thinking it's OK. We can't have abusive spouses using this as an excuse for their behavior, we can't have women forgiving manipulation, violence and rape because "it's OK in 50 Shades so must be

Sadly there is not just multiple rapes in the this book, but victim blaming and abuse apologies all over the place. There are many good breakdowns of the how and why of it online, search 50ShadesOfAbuse on Wordpress for a great chapter-by-chapter analysis.

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Please stop with all the 50 Shade stories where you forget to mention that the whole premise is about manipulation, abuse and rape. For a site that talks so much about consent, how can you not be aware of the multiple rapes in this book and the way there Grey totally ignores consent (and in the 2nd book, even ignores

Why are you promoting 50 Shades here on Jezebel, to me that seems totally against the general tone of the site? I've been a long time reader here, and consider myself a fairly enlightened when it comes to consent, abuse and rape culture - so find it astounding that instead of advising your readers that a book about an

He had a contract laying out terms for a fairly hardcore BDSM relationship - which in its self is OK if both parties are into that, but since he broke all the rules its irrelevant. Since she only signed it to stay with him and not because she really wanted to, its irrelevant.

This whole story is really horrible. The original slave contract doesn't look too extreme from what people I know use - although it's only good if both parties consent wholly. It does seem that she signed is only to stay with him, which makes it wrong.

This whole story is really horrible. The original slave contract doesn't look too extreme from what people I know use - although it's only good if both parties consent wholly. It does seem that she signed is only to stay with him, which makes it wrong.

This whole story is really horrible. The original slave contract doesn't look too extreme from what people I know use - although it's only good if both parties consent wholly. It does seem that she signed is only to stay with him, which makes it wrong.