Yup - men don't act as enthused about straightforward sexual advances as they all think they would.

OMG that is terrifying.

One of the guys who responded to my craigslist ad years ago was later featured in Jezebel for having been arrested in numerous rapes of women he found on craigslist. So yeah.

YES THIS! The last part! It actually freaks guys out to have a woman approach and say "hey, I want to have the sex with you." Part of my experience is being taller than an average man, hell, taller than most men, period, and that generally seemed to make guys intimidated. All too often I'd see guys checking me out,…

This might be a bit tangential, but I'm a gay female and I always joke with my friends that I'll invent a Grindr/Growler-esque app called "Meowler."

I think one of the major reasons random hookups are sometimes a harder sell for women than for men is that the chances of the sex being terrible are much higher for straight and bi women, because there are a LOT of dudes out there who have no interest and/or knowledge about how to make sex enjoyable for women. That…

that's gonna happen

Do you think that all a woman has to do is show up somewhere and men just hit on her?

Not true. Men are not sex machines always wanting sex; who always drop their panties as soon as I proposition them. As a woman who has tried to pick up men, I may have my choice of some men but that does not mean they are the ones I want. Just cause I have boobs and vag does not mean men have no standards (or that I…

Because a lot of guys in the office, street, bus, etc...are creepy as shit.

So long as women keep getting crapped on by society for wanting casual sex it'll never get used.

I love how men fucked this up for themselves.

Also, all my life I've had heterosexual women friends who have, at some point, really wanted to get laid but didn't have any options. Are you under the impression that a woman can just snap her fingers and have primo dick appear?

Same reason heterosexual men need one I'd imagine.

- they don't drink

I'd be allllllll over it. I have an open relationship and the OKC or Plenty of Fish thing is bullshit. The men are so needy, they want pictures, sexting, texting and all I want to do is fuck. If this app could cut down on the bullshit of dating sites I would greatly appreciate it.

If I was single I may consider using this app if it had one important feature. The option to not receive messages from anyone I had not contacted first (Yes I realize that if everyone turned this on no one could send messages). That way I wouldn't get all sorts of random creepy messages from creepy people I wasn't…

are any of these apps designed by women? because i've yet to see one that value-adds anything over a trip to the corner bar.

The big hurdle with getting women to use apps like this is actually, purely that most of the attractive men who use them *want* an Anthony Wiener style relationship. What they want is for women to constantly present themselves as sexually available, but then never actually have sex. They want to send you pictures of…

God dammit, all I want from a dating app like Tinder or Pure is just for guys to not ask or expect me to send them naked photos.

I am offended by this apostrophe.