I was not dismissing the article, I was dismissing the person I replied to, and the majority of people who responded to me who seem to take it "teach men not to rape" literally.

I don't believe that to be the case. I believe that they just don't chose not to label themselves as a rapist, even though they deep down they know they are one.

Or that it's possible to have a different view on what is the best way to solve an issue.

I agree, but that change will not be brought by telling boys not to rape, it might help, but that will not be the thing that stops rapists.

If that was the case I would not have an issue with it, but if you read the responses made to me all of them accept one talk about literally teaching men not rape being good way to stop rape. Which in my opinion is total bullshit.

I agree, but the person I responded to seems to think that the most important thing is to focus and telling people not to rape.

And what of that should be enlightening? I am fully aware of the issues and I am fully aware of how prevalent they are I just don't agree with the person I responded to that the best solution is telling men not to rape.(which is a very common notion.)

Can't you read or is my English that bad that what I wrote does not mean what I think I wrote.

But that is exactly my point in the last paragraph, and in the other posts I made. To me focusing on telling people not to rape is the least important thing, because most people actually agree that rape is bad. What we need to focus on is making sure rapists are punished, that people learn to see the signs of a…

Wait so by your standards, getting a non enthusiastic Yes is rape?

But do they really not know that drugging someone to have sex with them is not right? They know that rape is bad if they did not know that they would have no issue calling themselves rapists, they just make themselves believe what they did was not really rape or not rape-rape it does not mean that they don't actually…

I sometimes forget how poor the American education system is, sex and health education starts at the 4th grade where I am from with having one lesson per weak in the 4th, 7th and 10th grades.

First of school is not the only place people learn stuff people do have parents and mine talked to be what to do if I am getting robed and what to do not to be robed. Also you never had police officers come to school and teach you about keeping yourself safe?

Really and you believe that? I don't not for one second. If the dominant culture actually was the way you say it is it would be the majority of men raping women, not the minority. I am not saying it's a problem that is far to common, but it's not common enough to assume that people are not aware it's bad and what rape…

Wait so you actually believe that rapists don't know that rape is bad, or that they are rapists?

Really this argument again?

I think the best way of doing this is like we do it where I am from, you either have no dress code to speak off, or if you want to control what the kids wear you have uniforms the decision on what way you want to go is done by parents voting.

I don't agree with the second one, not having anything to do with safety does not make it automatically sexist.

Every man knows ladies don't like pencil dick. Unless you actually believe that female genitalia are not all the same just like male, and the most important thing is having the right size, which of course is false and big dick is the most important thing in life it even beats a big valet.

Was my first though too, must have something to do with having spent a lot of time cleaning the walls of my property.