I've been in a LTR for over two years now. My g/f is always bringing up marriage and children and how her friends are getting married and/or having children. She is relatively traditional, I abhor tradition. It's not that I'm opposed to the idea of marriage, I just don't think it would work out in the long run so why…

I don't know where you live, but in NYC I see AM/WF couples constantly. They are, what most people would refer to as, hipsters. In Brooklyn, female white hipsters love them some asian male hipsters. I also see them with a lot of South Asian (Indian) guys. I would assume this goes for other cities with large asian and…

Agreed. So I will say this here instead of starting a thread.

On a side note,

J.Law is the shit. I will never get tired of her. The end.

I see what you did there Rooo. Quit being a show off. Like any of us could even pass the Academy entrance exam, let alone graduate! I would need one of those Bashir genetic enhancements.

Some men do this to. "Fake it 'til you make it". Not wanting to express their feelings for fear of being perceived a certain way. A lot of men know have experience with being dumped by women who would prefer to "want what you can't have", rather then what they can have. If I'm really into a woman I'm more likely to…

"I'd be shocked if you said you live in NYC; the straight male/female ratio is so in men's favor here and NYC is also so status conscious, practically every guy seems to take a looong time to get past the "what if I could do better?" noncommittal phase. With the societal pressure for guys to be successful, more…

Agreed.

Yes, when it comes to relationships the idea of "being distant" is something in a woman that has never appealed to me. Then you have my gf who asks my opinion about everything, constantly. She also expects me to make all the decisions in our relationship, something I do not appreciate. Maybe because of my Anarchist…

This.

Men are very good at projecting.

Maybe it has to do with age.

"What is taking place is a very backward, narrow minded view of female sexuality that is suggesting that it's good to be sexually proactive, but only in specific parameters chosen by the man. I am allowed to find him desirable, as long as I demonstrate first that I don't sleep with other men on the first date, by not…

I submit for your consideration (you may be aware of this line of thought).

"Per the U.S. Constitution, crime statistics cannot dictate whom a police officer stops on the street"

I agree with your sentiment. As good as leather boots look, I would not expect you or anyone else to tackle snow and ice in them. I'm cool with duck boots. Someone else mentioned Sorels, those are fine. I will consider this further.

And I don't deny the utility of said boots, just strictly the choice of fashion.

I hate to sound like a snob or an anti middle-America elitist. The way I see it wearing UGG's is just to easy. Now I'm no Idris Elba or Norman Reedus, but I do try. UGG's represent the opposite of trying.

I think we should destroy conventional female body image standards. For sure. Amongst other things.