Serious question. Would you say that bi-racial women (black parent/white parent) in CA suffer the same fate? I can't imagine a straight man not being attracted to someone like Rashida Jones! I'm going to stop now before I start going down the rabbit hole that is, my feelings toward Rashida Jones...

I was being completely honest. In fact, that was pretty cathartic for me. I'm pretty sure I have never talked to anyone about this before. I don't know shit about psychology and I haven't really thought about this before but I really wish I knew why the type of young women I turned down when I was 17 and 18 (Artsy…

Sure. I'm always down to share.

Well, my thinking is that maybe because she is a non-practicing Catholic, she doesn't really see it as a big deal. It's just something she does to appease her parents and family is incredibly important to her. I don't blame her for wanting to make her parents happy but I don't subscribe to the same philosophy when it…

We should definitely chill sometime. I hate the fact that in all the places in North Brooklyn I hang out in, I am the only Latino. I remember one night this summer going to a show at 285 Kent in Williamsburg. There were 4 latinos hanging out front like everyone does in between bands. I noticed them speaking spanish,…

Just so we're clear, the women's dress sizes I stated I find appealing were floors not ceilings! I realize that women's bodies are all different, I find that i'm attracted to a lot of women who are size 14 thru 22 if not larger. Yes, I would agree that what fashion designers like about women's bodies is not what…

I'm glad you have experienced the racial diversity of Latin people first hand, through your travels. And yes Argentina is probably the "whitest" country in latin america the fact that so many Europeans moved there after WWII helped solidify this I think (Uruguay might be close though, because it has such a small…

What you wrote seems to fit what I have heard is the case in California. I'm just having trouble wrapping my head around it all. I guess it's because i'm a New Yorker and this is not the case here. Don't get me wrong, Asian women do well here, but not any better then white/latin/black/south asian women. And the whole…

Ignorance, pure and simple. Especially coming from Mexican-Americans, who should know better since there is a substantial Black Mexican population (at least 500,000 if i remember correctly) Henry Lewis Gates, the Harvard professor did a PBS special about Blacks in Latin America. You should watch it if you haven't…

I'm going to respond to this later tonight (Eastern Standard Time), when I get to the crib. There is so much here for me to write about. You have my thanks for breaking things down for me.

Well we could defenitly hang out and add alittle diversity to the places that I tend to frequent! Honestly, I'm seeing someone right now but would totally be into the idea of dating someone in the future that I share cultural heritage and interests with! It's funny that you bring up California, it's where I would like…

I'm Latino and thought about moving to Portland for a while. Then I thought "what if the white hipster ladies don't want to date me?" So I'm moving to Cali instead.

Based on my lifelong experience in NYC, I will have to say that I agree with you 100%.

*I see what you did there*

Yeah, whenever i'm with my gf's family and they go to sunday Mass, I am encouraged *pressured* to attend. And I do, while holding it against them all.

As a person of color I would have hated growing up in a place with no racial and ethnic diversity, like Kansas. My advice to her is to move to a part of the country that is more diverse, say California or NYC.

There's a Gawker dating site? I could have been dating Jezies this who time?

*Hipsters...*

Serious question here. Is the preference for Asian women a white and black guy thing? I'm Latin and have never dated an Asian woman. I have hooked up with a few Asian women over the years and find them as appealing as women of other races but have never been like "I need me a Asian woman!" I live in Brooklyn and there…

I'm Latin. When I move to Cali I'm dating hella brown, black and white women. No Asians women, just to fix the imbalance.