Am I that disillusioned by dating to think that was merely mediocre? I have been on some pretty horrific dates. And all the good ones never want to see me again or only want to sleep with me.

Or meds for Crohn's or thyroids or BCP or any myriad of problems.

I am not going to go out with him again. Despite being no closer to being in a relationship (and probably farther than I have ever been), I feel much less pressure or impetus to settle. Thankfully.

Am I that disillusioned by dating to think that was merely mediocre? I have been on some pretty horrific dates. And all the good ones never want to see me again or only want to sleep with me.

I told him to meet me at the restaurant. I listened to the creeper vibes.

Am I that disillusioned by dating to think that was merely mediocre? I have been on some pretty horrific dates. And all the good ones never want to see me again or only want to sleep with me.

Yes and no. I see where you are coming from, which why I gave him a pass on the "What are you on?" but not the "why?" I only mention it in very specific contexts where it is appropriate because the dreamms are INSANE. See treatyoself's comment above. I am talking loch ness monsters and dethawing my best (female)…

Positano! GAH!

I am in a new city, known for being insular (and then denying that insularity) and I feel the same way you do re: #1. Hang in there.

Date update:

Tshirt slogan.

Want to know why I love Jezzies?

As a 25 year old baby, Lilo was just getting adult popular when I was in hs and in early college and dudes were constantly talking about hot she was and how much they wanted to fuck her. It made my insecure 19yo self feel more insecure, so her downfall was both sour grapes and proof that vapid hot people don't get…

Vintage! (It is the only vintage thing I own.) One of my profs from undergrad inherited a hope chest full of vintage linens. She sent me (and the rest of her friends) stuff.

Dude, retroactively don't count that. Love isn't just a feeling. It is reciprocal concept.

I'm 25 and have never been in love. :(

Here's a picture that embodies my personality.

Here's me looking normal.

I don't. Hah.

OMG you are going to kill me: If I blow dry my hair without much attention (visual: sitting on my floor Indian-style watching 30 Rock with subtitles hair half-flipped), it often looks like that. I have wavy but fine naturally, so the curls get flippy when dried. I has been straighter and shinier of late because I…