Kotaku makes the rules and offers a service of sorts. In return for that, they demand a certain standard. We're not talking about some courageous group of rebels fighting oppression: in fact, it's the opposite. It's a bunch of sexist assholes who want to shout women down and silence them, so it's a bunch of would-be…

So, you're going to ignore the actual issue in favor of positing some future issue that might arise if peopke radically depart from the simple standards discussed here? Bravo.

You are my nightmare and my dream. I have no idea if guys like me or not so I've missed out on exactly the kind of guys that I find most attractive. Kindness is the most alluring trait a guy can have but it's also something that can and should be non sexual. So much of what guys get taught is masculine seems to be…

You know, I'm a wee bit ambivalent about being a notch on a bed post, if that's the case——-and let's face it, his crazed fans might think he's saving himself for them but he's got women screaming over him all day every day. There's something about that that makes me queasy. Huh.

Even though he's got those huge hands and long fingers, gossip says reciting Shakespeare isn't the only thing he does well with his.....

Oh dear GAWD......I'm scarred for life now.

I wouldn't want to read his palms, though. I think there is some genuine vulnerability there but I just find it so hard to believe that a good-looking guy from that kind of background could be really humble. And there's bits and pieces of video of him out there, eyefucking pretty fans in a way that doesn't seem…

Go back to Gawker, troll.

Grimke? Are you named after the abolitionists?

Picking pockets, man. Such a great skill but when I got bored at a wedding and panicked and wound up trying to put the wrong wallets back in the wrong pockets....My parents were NOT amused.

Had a boyfriend try and seduce me with "The Shepherd to the Nymph." He was not amused when I whipped out Raleigh's "The Nymph's reply to the Shepherd." This stuff kind of brings that back. I mean well done and all but nobody's going to convince me that a guy would not deliberately do this.

As it happens, I DO speak French. He's got a good accent when he's quoting someone but otherwise he speaks like somebody who took it in school. And, yeah: fangirl standards are ridiculously low. Those fangirls were practically drooling. The bit where he said the girl's hoarse voice was kind of hot? He was VERY amused…

Says there's three participants in this conversation but I just see you and I?

Thank you. That's exactly the sort of thing that makes it possible to help people in a very real way.

...er he's done at least one of them.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

She's an uneducated hill woman who can't take a shit till it's dark outside. There are lots of kinds of deprivations besides the physical. She was married to a horrible man. She probably lost all form of hope and freedom ages ago.

Thank you. I can't believe people are bitching at her like she got a "c" in womens' studies.

Racism AND sexism, how yummy!

Is there any way to help her?