I'm so thrilled to see a positive post about my home town! The comments section here (and some articles) tend to heap a lot of blame on Texas. I understand why, but there's such a thing as geographic privilege. Not all of us can live in, or move to, the liberal northeast. It's easy to live elsewhere and point fingers.

Zooborns is a fun website, and they sell great books for kids. The Zooborns board book is a favorite around here.

Keep up the Wellbutrin. It'll take a few weeks to make a difference. I'm on a Zoloft/Wellbutrin combo, and it's working really well except for making me even lazier. Keep a look out for job opportunities. I know it's a difficult job market, but it will make a huge difference if you are doing something that you at…

So I'm pretty depressed lately. I went off Citalopram about 6 months ago and I was doing pretty well for a little while there. My surly mood actually helped me get more sales, oddly, but now I'm just sad and I hate my life and my job again.

It's not a right away thing. Your situations sounds very similar to mine. I had such a hard time being open to just enjoying sex rather than be self conscious about it. I'm still working on it. Didn't matter who I was having sex with, it wasn't going to happen.

Sounds like he was super insecure that he didn't make you come, and that led to him being kind of a dick.

Sometimes I have orgasms, sometimes I don’t. It depends on the partner and my level of sobriety, but I can usually get there with a skilled partner and some concentration. What I have trouble with however is conveying to my partner that I am having an orgasm or that I like something at all. It’s only recently that I’m…

He clearly had a whole lot of disingenuous ladies in the sack.

Hello weekend people!

Don't consider it a problem, shit happens, orgasms don't happen. I've had guys ask me why I didn't come and I can usually attribute it to : not enough foreplay, I was too drunk/numb in my vagina parts, something was on my mind, it was a tuesday. Plus any guy who is all "oooh all my partners come" has been lied to.

You're not alone – I can get myself off in like 5 minutes, but have never been able to orgasm with my partner. I really enjoy sex regardless, but it's something that has always really bothered me, largely because I feel like I'm missing that closeness with someone I really care about. Also.. it would be nice,…

OK, IT'S SATURDAY, TMI/SEX QUESTION(S):

It's possible that they will perform a colposcopy guided biopsy to remove and examine abnormal tissue from your cervix. It can hurt a bit or feel like a pinch. They will send this sample to a pathologist to be classified. If it turns out that you have a precancerous lesion, it will be removed via a simple outpatient…

yes and yes.

JEZEBEL!!! So I'm thinking of writing a really funny, completely ridiculous book about an aspect of my life. Would you guys buy a copy and/or pretend you like it for pity's sake?

So I went to the gyno Wednesday and had a normal check up. When I sat down to talk to my gyno, he told me that my pap smear last year I had abnormal cells on my cervix (he said that the result showed that the cells or abnormal but unknown, I forgot the word he used). Next he proceeded to tell me that this year pap…

Maybe people should just wait until the stories are settled.

I find this happens to non-minorities too. My own personal experience with a famous upscale shoe store in Toronto is pretty telling. Im a lawyer, but on my off days I dress in ripped jeans, no makeup, and usually a Tshirt. Any opportunity I have to not dress up, I take up gleefully. So on this particular day, I attend…

It seems to be lost in all the writeups (I'm not waiting for ET to give some sort of hard-hitting analysis) that the story isn't that a store employee didn't recognize The Oprah; it's that a store employee was willing to turn away anyone based on the color of her skin.

If you're working in a high-end store and can't pick up on the aura of expensive and powerful that radiates from a lady like Oprah, maybe you need to take your talent to Hot Topix or the Euro equivalent.