Is this mendacity or are you really so ignorant that you believe this drivel? I'm going to try to explain this to you like the dimwit you seem to be.

It's about who has power, silly.

I mean, I get that you really desperately want to call people fags and for nobody to think badly of you for it because it's the same as saying "fuck."

Are you unable to differentiate between racism, sexism, other assorted bigotry and just cussing?