Okay, this is all true and legit.  I no longer feel bad for a Kardashian. Thank you. <3

Your comment brought up an interesting point for me. How much body dysmorphia must one accrue if you can never look like you actually look? Ever. Like, your entire physical being must have highly curated, ultra-high production values at all times or else. She looks like an in-shape, pretty girl in a teeny bikini here.…

When I was first on Tik Tok and the algorithm did not yet know I belonged with the girls, gays, and theys, Bradley popped up on my page a lot. I have no quarrel with him. He’s very pretty and that’s nice for the type who likes it. The comments on his content irk me, though. The women get pretty gross. Sexual…

That is a lot to deal with.  I am sending you big positive vibes. I’ve kind of lurked and followed your journey and I am sorry it’s reached this place with The Bartender. 

That’s a beautiful man and all, but I’m mostly struck that he really, really takes good care of his dog. That’s a shiny, healthy, happy doggo having a great doggo day.  That fills me with joy. 

I’m very excited to live alone and not have this be an issue starting in June. My boyfriend does all the dish washing and is very put upon about it. If I touch anything, however, I did it wrong. I load the dish washer wrong, I put the dishes in the wrong place, I use the wrong tools, I USE THE SPONGE WRONG. So, he…

True in the corporate space, as well. You pick the most powerful mentor you can get. That mentor is most likely going to be male. Is the system flawed? Totally. Do we live in it and thus have to roll with it to get ahead? Absolutely.

What really jumped out at me in your post is how important it is to preserve the integrity of the courts.  Because it could easily go another way with all the wrong people at each level.

Personally, I believe nothing. I had a lot of white friends who mocked Trump in 2016 and made it seem like it was oh, so funny that he was running, who said they wouldn’t be caught dead voting for that moron who then later came clean about voting for him. I’ll only believe the election results.

You’re spot on about the corporate buffer. I work for a company that really believes it, now. And it’s a HUGE difference in the way the content is delivered. This company is serious as fuck about equality, diversity, and inclusion. It’s incredible to me how different the programs are when the institution truly…

Yes! I love how strange it all is and how much she clearly loves it.

Right? I kind of felt sorry for him at first and now I'm like, oh, God, girl run awaaaay and keep running. Fuck that guy. 

I noticed this, too! UNLESS she’s doing something lowkey mean. Like, that clip of Kristen Bell losing her shit over sloths where at the end Ellen pretended she was bringing a sloth out and Kristen started to lose her shit. Then there was real humor in Ellen's eyes. 

What really got me is the art and home renovation ones. People are so damn creative! I had no idea some of that stuff was even possible. 

My mom is like that. Her victim stories shift and change as she tells them and they’re always “true” in that she believes what she’s saying. I’ve watched the process of her elaborating and re-architecting entire narratives to fit the crime she’s accusing someone of. I’ve seen her work herself into a panic attack as…

My grumpy old man will see yours at the polls! 

No judgement. I love that you know this and that you shared so that I don’t have to google it and do research to find out the answer lol

Yes! Precisely. And good on you for being an A+ parent. How is your daughter now?

Right? I feel like some of the more ignorant crowd seem to believe that trans women had this perfect utopian privileged male upbringing and then just decided to switch genders like it was a shirt they decided to wear on a whim.

I read that Will & Kate thing and it... didn’t seem to be English? I couldn’t follow it at all.  (I think that means I am An Old.)