The podcast is very much worth listening to. Here is a link to the written version.

Do you have any ideas on how they could have kept this from happening and still kept multiplayer fun?

Lol, are you being sarcastic with that last paragraph too? If not: wouldn't that be excessive by any measure? Even if one is concerned with desensitization to violence, I don't think anyone is suggesting that (for example) Tetris and Sim City are causing violence.

Also, do you have a citation for that? I can't find…

I think that men are told they can be anything, not that they will be rapists—but they are taught that embracing and/or expressing their sexual desires is the same thing as being a rapist, which is a) blatantly not fact 'n b) is I think part of why women 'n men have such difficulty trying to actually start a genuine…