Yeah, no. Flawed, yes, but attachment theory is very much still considered to be a valid part of the study of human behavior by most experts and researchers in mental health. I'm currently a grad student studying with some of these experts and researchers in a top ten program, and it's still part of the curriculum for…

I don't know why people are hating on you so much. It's basic attachment theory.

:-( homegirl looks miserable

A home made walk of shame kit. http://www.walkofshamekit.com/

Agreed . . . "pre-funk" is the worst name, ever, in the history of nomenclature.

At my university, it was Vitamin Water. Blech.

That's super super not cool of your roommate.

I do - there are no clocks in the classrooms at my university, and it's not appropriate to have my cell phone out.

I like that in the search bar, it says "take screen shot on mac." Someone learned a new trick for this!

I agree that the n-word had no business being in the headline, but I disagree that there's no shock to be had here. It doesn't shock you, because you are a black woman. You don't have white privilege. White people are capable of ignoring alllll kinds of racism until it is organized neatly and put under their noses (I…

I know that if my brother, who is around the age of your interest, started dating a woman your age, I'd be very weirded out. I'm a couple of years younger, and I would not date someone in their mid-late 30s. The power differential seems like too much for most people to handle, and it would definitely scare me off…

waaah! Preventing pregnancy is very, very important, and there's nothing particularly couply or clingy about saying you don't want his baby inside of you. Time to have a birth control talk, pronto.

Fuck that "real women have curves" bull shit. I am no more of a woman now, healthy and curvy with breasts and hips, than I was when I was suffering from anorexia.

You should read Pornland by Gail Dines.

I'd be so interested to have a conversation with this person, or a person like him. I don't understand how a person could have sex with THAT many people and still value sex and see his or her partner as a person and an equal and not just a hole, or a set of holes. It seems masturbatory.

How? That is insane. That does not seem healthy.

1000? Like, actually 1000? Is there an accidental zero in there?

Fine, you win. If you're pregnant and need an abortion, you can have one, too.

Programming idea, since I'm guessing you can't have electric blankets? DIY heating pads! Cut off the sleeve of an old shirt, fill it with rice and some essential oils or maybe some tea for scent, sew up the ends, and microwave for five minutes next to a cup of water. It incorporates crafts and being a responsible,…