I mean with your context I get why you feel the way you do. But strictly based on watching one vs watching the other, it's not the same thing at all. My point is that gives the impression of objectification and the other gives the impression of empowerment, regardless of what goes on backstage or inside each woman's…

you really don't see a difference between Beyonce stomping around on stage, performing her songs about herself and her husband and Sofia spinning on a platform while a man speaks?

standing ovation for 'gundick'

have you seen him recently? He's tired as hell

lol u mad

I don't know, Prince is talented, but I don't really feel he always puts on show.

Japanese efficiency amirite

All humping should be wet or at least SEMI-MOIST. I honestly can't think of a more embarrassing (vanilla) sex act than dry humping.

Yeah I wanted to be so into this but I was mostly zzzzz

I am personally going to ban every man, yes.

yes! I went to a huge gay party in Paris (underground thing not really known by straight guys) and was surrounded by a literal sea of oiled six packs and leather booty shorts and beautifully chiseled faces and not one bothered me. I got some compliments on my dress and what not but I was really blown away that it…

There really is no sensitive and polite way to tell someone they're a complete moron who isn't worth your time.

Who is 'us.' Have I expressed some solidarity with you?

I'm not *missing* the point. I'm dismissing it. But please, mansplain some more.

Listen, I'm a brown person so I get that dick faces will take any example of bad behavior from a single member of a (usually oppressed) subgroup and say 'SEE I TOLD U BLACKS ARE CRIMINALS.' But I 100% don't care. Anyone who wants to dismiss the idea of equality between the sexes based on someone saying 'dudes are the…

Nah, dudes are the fucking worst.

Men actually respond to it very well in my experience because the hardest part for them is often trying to figure out how to strike up a conversation. Once I was being hit on by a guy, I stopped him mid-pitch and asked him to tap another guy—one who had been sneaking peeks at me throughout the night, but hadn't…

Why, are you interested in sniffing them?

This is very culturally subjective. I live in Paris and it's true that French and Italian women will almost never approach a guy, even ones my age (twenties). But when I lived in New York my friends regularly picked up guys.

Okay so have we decided, yet, how to tell the difference from radical vanity ('selfie-love!' *gag*) and narcissism? Is it based on how conventionally attractive the person is? Or is it about intent? Is there a difference?