You asked me a question about lesbians. I'm telling you to go ask a lesbian. See how that works?

Ask a lesbian?

Have been reading and hearing about this film non-stop for over a month. Officially fatigued. I live in Paris, so the excessive ads and magazine covers featuring the two doesn't help. Meanwhile actual lesbians in Paris are unicorns.

Oh okay! I thought the word was exclusively used to refer to a fetish.

God Karlie looks awful. She's definitely built more for editorials and high fashion, not underwear. She's a stick.

definitely thought you mean tribbing

I like it in theory but I can usually hear my hair ripping out in little bits and that is v v stressful and not sexy

How does that work? I have a tedency to compare myself to anyone who catches the attention of my boy, and I don't know what I'd do if it was a cartoon pony?

I loved working for tips. Unless nyc restaurants are going to start paying servers 15-25 dollars an hour, abolishing the tipping system would absolutely be a pay cut. I'd never have worked at restaurants without a tipping system because there is no way in hell I'm taking minimum wage to serve food to assholes and then…

Honestly if I was going through this I'd be completely humiliated and any time a stranger "reached out" to tell me whatever, I'd only be reminded that thousands of people I've never met now know that I experienced sexual abuse as a child and the intricate details of things I really want to forget.

all right, I must be extra cynical, because I thought they literally meant native americans brought us "sexy color" by 'mixing in' and couldn't think of anything but rape and genocide and those terrible shoes

Maybe you're just running with the wrong crowds. I went to school in white suburbia and was convinced I was fairly hideous and just generally undesirable. But since then, I've always hung out with really racially diverse groups and it's made all the difference. In New York I dated across races. I have found Paris is…

yeah this. I get told by black people that I'm not mixed (nigga you is black) and told by white people that I'm "not really black" because I'm mixed.

The problem with me is that it's being circulated as 'cool costume ideas' by people who don't understand the point. Thats how I came across it on my timeline, "look, your daughter can be princess rosa parks for halloween!'

Isn't Jim bipolar? I recall his name coming up a lot when I was looking for validation by googling famous people diagnosed with My Crazy.

Did you read her article? It was about both.

I'm really trying to figure out the part where anyone says boys should continue getting sloshed

Title and trolly-slant aside, I thought the article was all right. She acknowledged rapists are responsible for rape and encourages both college men and women to stop binge drinking.

I really hate the idea that dick jokes make a work environment hostile to women. I get jokes about banging chicks and sexist jokes, but even I make dick jokes. It just comes across as "everyone knows women don't like naughty jokes!" I think we should talk about how the jokes are generally inappropriate (if they are)…

The joke didn't sexualize women. It didn't mention women at all. It was a dick joke followed by a reference to one guy banging another guy (if you read it that way).