Dr. Nerdlove promotes that kind of problematic shit. That he has column at the Nice Guy Project is a red flag to me. Specifically, he promotes going in cold with sexual conversation, making assumptions about women based on their willingness to engage in sexual conversation, and not engaging with women unless they…

"I just straight up asked, 'hey, do you want to have sex?'"

They can tuck the morning wood up against their stomach so it's not jabbing you.

I actually don't think they are being quite that logical.

I kind of wish I had some holiday parties to go to. Parties are fun. (not work parties. well, other people's work parties, maybe.)

Alright, mental note to self, stop doing this, the employees are judging you.

It's not the pizza plots that are the problem. I don't think most porn makers actually want you to believe that horny housewives bang the pizza delivery guy. It's the things like the bang bus which are pretty invested in convincing the audience that the whole thing was real. It's part of the schtick, and it's…

What is it with the boner in the back? It's never happened to me, but I hear about it so much that it must be a thing. Do guys learn this in guy school or something? Is there a good reason why they can't just fucking say "hey baby, you in the mood?" or something?

I am SO lucky to have you.

" totally not being an asshole,"

It is a pretty simple matter. I make idle chit chat with people all the time just to keep busy at the bank or whatever. If someone is not responding, it means they aren't interested in that subject or they aren't interested in you. If changing the subject doesn't make them perk up, then move on.

"Before you submit your manuscript, search for all double spaces and replace them with single spaces."

Delete that shit immediately, before it gets archived on their servers.

YES PLEASE

Hey, that's for explaining that to us!

The dicks tag is good and all, but I think this should have been a fuck you post.

Are you married to hillrat? :)

Anyone who popped a question to me would be very, very disappointed. Mainly b/c anyone who would do that clearly doesn't know me that well as I am firmly in the "decision made together" camp.

Why not?

You are not stuck. You are not required to agree to every single request if a request that you disagree with. I think you need to explore why your husband doesn't want you telling people you proposed. It was your experience, too, you know.