The autoplay is a huge issue. About a month or so ago there was a body hanging from a tree in my area (St. Louis). It was determined to be a suicide but racial tensions are high here and I had a number on people on Facebook share the live video on their feed because they truly believed it was a hate crime and police…

OMFG, that’s the kind of shit that kills me.

I think it’s all in how you frame it. You are not doing this because you are the lady and it’s the “lady job.” You are doing it because this is the job that you do for the family because that was the agreement that was reached. Putting the choice factor in there makes a world of difference. “I am staying at home with…

I understand. Some days he comes to me and is like “Should I do ___ or ___” and it might be something basic but I’m like “I literally do not have the energy to make your decisions and my decisions.”

Yes. This. I “blame” maternity leave. Being at home for those 10-12 weeks meant I had to figure stuff out because it had to get done. But then my husband would come home and be like “Well, you know how to bathe him so I’ll let you do that.” Um, yeah, because I figured it the fuck out. You do the same!

Yes, I’ve often thought that instead of having a partner and two kids, I have three kids which does not get my pulse racing in the bedroom. Which is why I’m considering divorce.

It’s good you realize it’s an issue now before kids (or without kids if you opt to not have them). My husband and I were OK on splitting the duties before kids because we had enough money to hire a cleaning service. We had enough money to order grocery delivery. We ate a lot of take-out (which was expensive) and if…

I work with a lot of younger women and I once told a group of them “Never marry a man with a stay at home mom” and they were shocked. It’s based on personal experience and I swear my husband’s brain formed thinking that this is just how it works and any logic to the contrary does not match. It would be like telling…

Testosterone, while technically not a vitamin, could help.

I feel it is important to inform you that you are probably married to my soulmate.

I can live with that.

I had always heard that the song to be played upon her death was Tubthumping by Chumbawamba.

I literally wonder this about every couple I meet. Is something wrong with me?

I know this seems like silly advice but if you’re slightly considering getting help but aren’t there yet, I have two recommendations:

They really are the best. I am going to need to buy a new 3/4 black one because I’ve had it a few years and it’s starting to fade a bit.

And for the factory store, they’re actually not bad in price. They have a lot of sales. I have so many and only one has fallen apart and the store was kind enough to replace it.

J Crew Factory has the best cardigans. I have like 10 of them in different colors. You can get 3/4 length sleeves or long sleeves.

It hit me like that too. I am in a dying marriage and reading this made me long for something that’s so rewarding. Reading it made me think that it is possible. There’s some hope.

I love Bobby and I love this write-up.

Yeah, I watched it and had no idea what was going on. But I do like the version of Mad World.