Reboundstudent: I think a big (though not simple) piece of it is coming to a peace with the idea that you needn't appeal to the masses of "guys". You only need the right one, and he is largely defined by his affinity and appreciation for all that YOU are. This is the underlying wisdom that supported Redbb choice to be…

The fact that fashion already exists is hardly a reason to exclude it (or anything else) from thoughtful consideration. Let's not act like it's just "a bit of fun", disregarding the millions of people whose lives are profoundly influenced by their valuation of/interaction with it or the billions of dollars to be spent…

I'm all for trying new colors and styles, but isn't that approach always available, regardless of the COY?

Thank you so much for being such an important part of the vocal minority who have found it within them to walk the talk. I'm glad you've made it through. Not only for your value as an individual light, but as well, for that which your words may allow others to see in themselves.

This is absolutely heartbreaking. Without knowing all of the internal (psychological/emotional) and external (family/work/ etc.) facts of Saldhana's, life I am confident in saying that much.

Is it just me, or does anyone else not understand why this matters so much to people? Beyond the fact that they have evidently (and, to my understanding, inexplicably) chosen to esteem it as some sort of fashion beacon with outsized influence over their choices for the year going forward, of what actual import is…

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