Eh. A person with reasonable social graces knows to say, "You chose well!" I just googled the author, and in the full page of images of her online, she looks AMAZING in every single one. She's a beautiful person who dresses beautifully.

It is phrased in a patronizing way rather than a "you're a bad parent way." Actually, many of the compliments are also patronizing. "See, you're out with your kids, and neither of them are dead yet! Good job, dad!"

For what it is worth, I saw the pictures of my holding my first child after her birth and realized how fat I'd gotten. I lost 10-15 pounds over the next few months. I did not feel hot. Maybe the hot feeling dads are the ones who are awake enough to fill out a form? I was seriously a danger to myself and others I was…