I'm trying to get your point, but I guess where I struggle is I don't see "want sex" and "don't want sex" as binary. Maybe it is for you, but I think for most people it's more of a spectrum. Like hunger or thirst. Maintenance sex happens when you're on that point on the spectrum that's like, "I wasn't hungry, but…

Everything I've heard indicates that OKCupid has a system to who they show you. If you've just been looking at your main page or your match page, try going from profile to profile with the "other users" or "related users" or whatever that section is called. I see people that way that I hadn't seen or noticed before.

Socializing online is anti-social. Makes sense.

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Maybe when the topic is "Sexual Assault," and women are discussing their concerns about it, men should reconsider the urge to barge in and "play devils advocate."

Does anyone else have that horrible Friends phenomenon of realizing that you're older than they are meant to be and freaking out? They seemed SO GROWN UP when I was a teenager.

As I have a penis (edit, and identify as male) and spend an inordinate amount of time happily reading Jezebel, I'd like to thank all of Jezebels readers and writers for not making ham handed threats of deadly violence against me. Or as most people call it: acting like a normal fucking human being!

Yes. In a heartbeat. I don't subscribe to the idea that my government is secretly planning some kind of regime change or something.

Would you, as what seems like a reasonable and responsible person, give up your weapons for a country with significantly less gun violence?

after canceling everything, of course — although, I kind of feel like the person who said "I'm not going to do this should be responsible for that?" ...

MASSACHUSETTS: Kate Middleton (Duchess of Cambridge) / Scottish referendum / Scottish independence / "True Detective" (TV series) / "The Good Wife" (TV series) / "The Newsroom" (TV series) / Patton Oswalt (comedian) / Ira Glass (NPR host) / Tom Magliozzi (host of Car Talk) / Jonathan Gruber (professor) / Bill Simmons…

This is the tack too many of the Gawker comments took—a woman presenting a man with evidence of his cheating clearly makes her an evil bitch who deserves to be cheated on. Whereas the general comments here are about how this wasn't anywhere near harsh enough to be considered real revenge.

Strange, but I can't really judge. Every year my president pardons a turkey from being killed and eaten for Thanksgiving, before going on to eat a... different turkey. So.

Sorry, but that sounds really apathetic. "Ohp, the system is fucked up. So, yo poors! Stop living, stop trying, stop having families, stop doing anything else other than plugging yourself into this increasingly inhumane system."

I'm curious about her conclusions about high-income women and the supposed buyer's market that they've got. I would guess that probably applies to older people who may be looking at a second marriage after some maturing and life experience? Because in my experience, there are very few never-married successful men in…

" I think it would be better if you could choose the photos you want in your video or slideshow at the outset, rather than having them pre-selected."

I think their concern is the "window period," or the period of time between when a person is infected with HIV and when tests show that they're seropositive. It's about three weeks.

Still, it's fucking bullshit.

Because men acting out with violence after being rejected has no precedent?

Basically any time I hear anyone blaming a woman for rape or abuse, or excusing the man because "that's just how men are/think/act," I think to myself, "If men are expected to act like animals, then they should be locked in cages."

This was in CT and they seem to have an uncanny love for left-side exits there, so he could've been approaching his exit as well.