this sounds like 50 shades of grey.

Safe, sane, consensual. SAFE SANE CONSENSUAL. BDSM 101: SAFE, SANE, MOTHERFUCKING CONSENSUAL.

She is an incredibly brave woman and I admire her strength in getting herself out of that horrible situation. It isn't an easy thing to do.

First: You need a partner.

If you don't understand that EVERYTHING can be a joking matter then, and I mean this as politely as possible, you need to expand your mind and views. I always love when closed minded people act as if they are the enlightened ones, and people with an expanded worldview are somehow the problem. Rape isn't funny. That…

Why would someone look at creepshots or stolen nudes of any kind, when there is so much porn available, if they didn't specifically enjoy the violation? That's the whole reason men take creepshots and upskirts, etc.—because they know their victim doesn't want them to and they like that.

These photos and the release thereof somehow came up at morning briefing at work. I was the only woman at briefing this morning, and was HORRIFIED by the comments coming out of my male coworkers mouths. A variety of ages—from 30 to 70 all in agreement that this was these women's own fault and they don't feel a shred…

I can't believe how fucked up this has gotten. Especially all the blame that's being thrown at these women for taking these photos. Get the fuck out.

Can we stop calling it a leak and start calling it a disgusting violation of privacy?

Can't tell if serious or...

and some wear color-coded badges — available to anyone who wants one — that alert others to the wearer's social comfort level. A green badge indicates that you're happy to socialize with strangers, yellow means you only want to talk with people you already know and red tells everyone that you'd rather be left…

ah, fuck this, really. This is seriously the weakest statement you could possibly make. If they hacked into a computer, like they said they did, would you use the same excuse if they stole credit card info instead of pictures? It's a personal computer. Nude pictures are legal. You expect pictures to remain as private…

GTFOOH with that nonsense. People shouldn't take nude photos because of thieves? If someone steals your car, do you blame yourself for buying it?

Who cares what the reason is?

Funny cause I thought the lesson was more "Mind your business/don't be a shithead"

Dude, there's more to consent than verbal consent. A person who is aggressively sexually assaulting another person is indicating their consent affirmatively by taking control of the sexual encounter.

Did you even read the article before coming here with your straw man? Physical, non-verbal consent counts. If you don't know what that is maybe you shouldn't be having sex.

Oh, so this is about you? Who cares that she's actually been threatened, the real problem is that people are stereotyping gamers, and this hurts your feelings? I'm sorry, but that is just tremendously stupid. And I actually play a lot of video games, and I know from experience that many, many gamers embody the…

How does it go through somebody's brain that the appropriate response to anything is to threaten to rape and murder the people they disagree with? Most especially puzzling is the "I disagree with what you say about women being targets for sexualized violence, so I'm going to threaten you with sexualized violence,…