Well, but honestly, so what?

I was just reading some comments about the Depp/Heard story on other sites and I’ve concluded that a video could emerge of Johnny Depp repeatedly punching Amber Heard in the face, and the internet would still declare her to be a gold digger who deserved it.

So fucking depressing.

Currently snorting my birth control off of the back of a bar toilet while googling clinics that perform hysterectomies on otherwise healthy 30-year-olds.

Like, respect, admire etc.

Rate doesn't mean assigning some sort of score in this case

There is some serious race and culture prejudice here. It’s funny because his laugh isn’t sinister at all, sounds like any most black British guys you’d sit next to on the bus. That might be the problem, this fella has never spoken to a young black man beyond maybe in a shop.

I mean, I don’t think I’d simultaneously have a male and female partner if I wasn’t both bisexual and poly, but I could be wrong about that. And I don’t think you have to be bisexual and poly to recognize that sort of entitlement is gross behavior.

um a lot of people want that.

Maybe we just all have crippling trust/intimacy issues given how much criticism we receive on a daily basis. Thanks, Boomers!

2nd wave feminism called, they want their transmisogyny back.

You’re not clever.

okay but

Incredibly good article.

I don’t know why I’m still shocked when when people are so unobservant as to take the time to post about something they think they are above, and trash it, showing that they aren’t above it, and outing themselves as hating themselves.

if she says “stop, i don’t want to do this any more,” and you continue then yes, it’s rape.

It has happened to me several times with several different guys... I agree to have sex with someone, then after a while I am sick of it, I know I won’t finish (some guys, especially when alcohol is involved, take too long), and I just want it to be over, but he won’t stop when asked. I tell him to finish, but he just…

It’s a coercive power dynamic, so yeah.
If you’re just having sex with them because you’re in a relationship/married, but not really wanting to do it, it kind of is, there’s a power dynamic there. Maybe they aren’t in fear for their lives or safety, or maybe they are, plenty of abused women in the world, and sexually…

Well, it’s simple, ask for permission, Get a firm but happy: YES, and don’t pressure her about it, or make her feel bad for refusing if she does.

Are women qualified to govern their preferences and behaviour? Absolutely. I never said or felt otherwise.