I read this and felt identified too. You are not alone. Hugs

Holy shit. I wasn't aware of this so I googled it and GODDAMN. People are filth.

Agreed. Same as “oh it’s just a cry for help.” The fuck you mean, just a cry for help? If someone’s crying for help, doesn’t that mean we should help them???

She punched a toilet attendant and called her a “Caribbean jigaboo” and a “fucking black bitch.” She was convicted and has a criminal record, which may be part of the reason she never made it big in the USA.

uhhhh.... that chick in the bathroom was a black toilet attendant that Cheryl called a “Caribbean jigaboo” and a “fucking black bitch.” That’s why we talked shit about it.

you didn't like Pablo?

Sorry, do you live in Europe? I live in England, where people who murder trans people face life sentences starting at 30 years, and we wouldn’t see 12 years for murder as harsh at all actually.

Nicki has a song called Boss Bitch in which she repeats the phrase “I’m a boss ass bitch.”

I have been told by many people that I am “such a Hufflepuff” but I don’t really know what that means. Except that maaaaybe it's a smoking joke?

You're really insightful and nice, thank you for all of this. Good luck to you too💕

Yes. I believe that’s a driving force in my life now. I worked in domestic abuse outreach in schools until I had a breakdown. At the time I felt like if I saved just one kid from abuse or rape, it would all have been worth it because it equipped me with the skills to help others.

thanks, that’s a really nice sentiment. I had a pretty good three years (no rape! three close deaths but none of them were violent & only one was unexpected) but then my boyfriend got stabbed in our home six months ago and it’s taken me this long to even start believing there’s good in the world again. At this point…

Thanks. its really easy to blame yourself, especially when it happens more than once.

if you froze & you couldn’t move or say anything... that is hella normal. You didn’t do anything wrong. Your body did whatever it thought the most viable survival plan was and it WORKED because you are still here. So don’t blame yourself for what you did or didn’t do. You did exactly what your survival instructs made…

I’m on mobile, thanks for linking it!

Yeah. Revictimisation. I was raped by three men in 2010. Two of them were abusive boyfriends, one was an opportunistic neighbour. I don’t think any of those would have happened if I hadn’t already been raped at 13 and 18 previously.

i loved her already but this is next-level deep. Thank you Margaret. Look forward to hearing that song.

Most of the time he is! Every once in a while he just comes out with the most amazing clangers.

Didn’t know who that was, looked him up and

I just read these out loud to my boyfriend (while laughing!) and he didn’t realise any of them were jokes and is really genuinely impressed with Taylor Swift right now.