Becausegod forbid CIA women be able to discuss issues about CIA women when that is the topic. Jesus, talk about a circle jerk.

Nobody is saying to ignore those other fights. They’re saying that by bringing them up when we are clearly talking about FGM, you’re distracting from a very important discussion. This is like a classical definition of sidetracking.

I haven’t seen any comment saying circumcision is “no big deal.” I’ve seen comments saying they aren’t the same, which they aren’t. They are radically different medical procedures with drastically different intentions and end results. The only people being silenced are the poor girls who undergo this procedure because…

Nowhere did this article even bring up circumcision. Why is it so hard to stay on topic when it’s about an atrocity that’s done to women’s sexual organs? Why is it always, “We must discuss the penis first!”

Yes, but there’s a time and a place to talk about nonconsentual circumcision of the penis. Generally speaking, it’s not when talking about forced clitorectomies, since that’s a specific problem that has proven pernicious and needs to be stamped out.

There’s a difference between being out as a gay person and being out as trans. When you’re post-op trans, you’re not really “hiding” who you are, you’re just being who you are, which is the gender that you’ve transitioned to.

You know, if you don’t want to be “outed” publicly, maybe don’t apply to be on a network “Reality” show. Just sayin’.

At least three have directly responded to the general idea (between your comments and those are RageIsTheNewJoy) and then look at all the stars they are getting. I would say that counts as support.

You’re speculating a lot from my comment. I actually didn’t follow anything past the “positive reinforcement is great to…

As a woman, I feel confident telling you there is. It’s honestly just an easier and safer option to fake the orgasm and get the entire thing over with. I was screwing around with guys for nearly a decade before I finally stopped faking orgasms nearly every time. Women also feel a lot of pressure to have orgasms -…

I am also not trying to start a fight but any convincing woman knows exactly how to fake an orgasm with literally every element you just listed.

I don’t want this to sound flippant or dismissive but most of those women were probably faking it. Unless you mean 5-7 minutes after first cunnilingal contact but there was a lot of other foreplay before it...

It is definitely out there! I’m in my late 30s and have been with my fair share of dudes. And only TWO have managed to make me cum from oral (both were long term partners - actually one still is my long term partner). I need time and I need to be able to relax, both of which are hard for me. In most cases being…

I mean, it’s certainly possible that you might just have a lower or different ability to orgasm, but 3 minutes of foreplay makes it sounds like your partners don’t know what they’re doing. I don’t have any advice other than “date different men,” but your brief comment certainly makes it sound like your partners aren’t…

I’m in the same boat here. I know that women here are telling the truth that they’ve had some really good oral sex performed on them but at the same time my experience makes me internally scoff and say, they’re lying that it’s that good. At this point (almost 30 years old) I’ve started believing that I will probably…

Um, can we have sex, now?

Five to seven minutes is the average time it takes for me to get bored and fake a convincing orgasm.

I take offense to this as a person who has sucked a lot of dicks (I don’t actually take offense, tbc)

The best piece of advice I see in the article is the one that can’t be taught, and that is get into it and enjoy it. Some guys find going down on their partner to be a chore and possibly slightly gross. But if you view oral sex as a part of sex and not a prelude to it then the results can be fantastic. I totally get…

“ if you exclude that outlier and my ex-wife,”

But there’s one thing, above all else, that you should remember as she gets close to orgasm: do not change what you’re doing in terms of routine and pacing.