People also need to understand that “Yes means yes” is actually not enough. Consent can be coerced or otherwise obtained under pressure. So really it should be “No means no, yes doesn’t mean yes.”

It all depends on how well your daughter can pass for white. Some white/asian mixed people can pass well enough that they effectively have white privilege.

This was one of the best purchases I’ve ever made:

I would be highly suspicious of men cheering on the availability of this kind of drug, as it would undoubtedly expand male access to women’s bodies. How concerned are we about scenarios in which men potentially spike their significant others’ food with this drug over some period of time?

While it is true that erections are for the most part involuntary and often unrelated to sexual arousal, that doesn’t excuse the dude here for having one in the presence of people who will feel threatened by it. It was his responsibility to control his body, and if he couldn’t, remove himself from the event. That he…

He once said feminists have no sense of humor. That invalidated anything he had to say ever again.

I haven't read them, no, but that's good to hear.

Considering that the female Thor is still designed for the male gaze (with boob plate and all), we can't really be sure it's a good thing until we get the demographic breakdown of who's actually buying the comics. I'm personally refraining from celebration until we can confirm that 1. this is actually serving women's…

I think something like 40% of women in the US are "pro-life", which is a staggeringly high amount, until you realize that it's mostly elderly women who hold those views. Having experienced pregnancy doesn't immunize someone from "I got mine"-ism. Include them if you wish, but they are not your friends.

What he says about feminism isn't that far from what Louis CK says. But of course he's not white, so he's mansplaining. White feminists need to be aware that they live in a racist society that diminishes the value of the voices of POC, and their adverse reaction to Aziz Ansari might be a product of that.

Don't forget post-menopausal women. If you don't have skin in the game you don't get a say.

Teaching men to not rape is the only valid way to prevent rape. These kinds of "rape prevention" ideas that put the responsibility on women for their own safety is just another tool for the rape culture to victim blame when rapes happen, because they didn't follow the "rape prevention" manual closely enough.

You only think he's hot because your racist/ableist/classist society does.

I stand by everything I say. I've said these things IRL, and I will say them to you IRL if given the opportunity.

Actually, you're the one actually contributing to the preservation of preference of attributes traditionally associated with whiteness. You see, the point I made in my original post makes no sense if it was as inclusive as you demanded: "So white/POC accents are most attractive. Who's surprised?" Because that…

I class them as white because I'm 100% sure that the vast majority of survey responders, when picking "English" accent as their hot accent of choice, did not have people like you in mind, which I stated as much in my first response to you. The othering of non-white Brits with hot accents was already baked into…

"It's so hot when minorities possess markers of class traditionally associated with whiteness!" Look, you may personally find black people of all types attractive, but when you dedicate a post to only promote black people with british accents, that doesn't look very good for you.

So when the survey-takers were responding they were thinking of people who look like you? The "hottest" accents are considered to be so because they are associated with class, which in turn is associated with proximity to whiteness. That association is perpetuated by structural/institutional racism, which, as we can…

So white accents are the most attractive. Who's surprised?

And people who concern troll about intersectional issues on a feminist website to suppress awareness about rape are almost certainly rape apologists, if not full-on fedora-wearing men's rights activists.