Sorry, fuck that. I'm a dude and I use "I feel like" all the time because the whole masculine approach to language with is unrelenting focus on objectivity and "things either are or are not" is stupid and practically designed to get people to fight each other. Since feelings aren't allowed to be part of the equation,…

Speaking as someone with experience of a family member weight shaming me, don't let her get in your head. She probably has her own deep rooted issues about weight and body image and is just projecting them on to you.

Props to them, but the thing is, an 18-dick cover would have gotten tossed too. If they want to argue no body part should be obscene, more power to them?

Being underweight is definitly very dangerous, it is often underestimated or forgotten.
I have battled anorexia for many years and was hospitalized because my heart wasnt beating right anymore and doctors were afraid I might get a heartattack. Even when I gained a bbit of weight I still had to get my blood checked…

Let us not all forget the excellence of the young women from Hey Arnold! Even though Arnold was the (male) protagonist, the girls on that show were so wonderfully not cliche and complicated! As rich in personality as the boys! Amazing.

Man, I want to start answering the phone "What's the sitch?" again like I did when I was younger.

Good news post: after several months of posting employment-search woes, I landed a job a couple weeks ago and started last Monday.

I know I'm going to curb this, but...my five year old has a new catchphrase: oh no she didn't. No more cookies; oh no she didn't. Classmate won't share her cheetos; oh no she didn't. It's almost as good as when my little brother would say "what about me, what about my needs?" to EVERYTHING.

I feel like writing on standardized tests is always really hard for some reason. On both the SAT and GRE I got better math scores than writing scores, and though I am not bad at math, I've always been considered better at writing.

Has he had any internships/experience using his math degree? He could probably work as a tutor, on the side, while he tries to find something using his degree/stable.

That's very cool. Now I want to be paid to learn to weave a basket.

I had reached that point in a job where I was going to walk if it didn't improve. I negotiated some things, stayed a while, but the suck got worse. I set a deadline of September (this was last year) that if i hadn't found a job by then, I was leaving no matter what. The plan was to just work my tail off to support…

I would take a hard look at how much money you have stashed away, and whether you can live on just your income alone. Also, take a hard look at how hard he appears to be looking. It is so much easier to find a new job while you're employed.

Night shift jobs (and to me, starting at 5am counts as night shift :) ) can be really hard on your body, let alone having a job that's hard on your self-esteem. If he's decided that he needs to move on, of course you'll support him. My hubby and I have gone through various versions of this over the last 20 years…

Wishing you multitudes of luck!

My husband did something very similar 8 months before the wedding. He quit his job because they were cutting his hours to almost half of what they had been before. The last straw was when they decided to give him a pay cut for something he didn't do. He quit when they told him that. It was stressful! After 4…

I think you're doing the right thing by supporting him. If you love someone, you don't want to hold them back from finding happiness. Also, with a better job, you 'll be able to see him more. Anyway, my huaband's looking for a new job, too. He's working with a few recruiting firms, and they've been really helpful. He…

Oh, hell no, I'm not accepting my period as it comes. I suppress the shit out of it with drugs. Better living through chemistry!

gimme one!

Can someone at Jezebel acknowledge and explain the crappy new layout, please?