Should women be violent towards men either? Absolutely not. Violence in general is unacceptable. However, by definition, oppression can only be directed towards marginalized groups, so therefore dominant-power groups (in this scenario, men) cannot be victims of oppression, just like white people as a group, cannot…

Friends and lovers, both to each other :)

I'm sorry, but are you serious? I'm a social worker, and one of the things they stress in courses on race, culture, and oppression is the staggering amount of Native American women who are sexually assaulted by non-Native men for this exact reason, and you don't have to have a Master's degree to see why. You should…

I don't think she said it was a willful act where the guy put it on with the express thought, 'hey I'm going to objectify women with this t-shirt.' Rather, she was using the platform to educate him and anyone else who wears shirts like that 'without thinking' that regardless of their intent, that is in fact what…

I think it's fabulous- we need men to stand up to violence, oppression, and inequality aimed at women. I find it extremely heartening that so many men 'get it'. I really believe that while women are obviously and absolutely integral in promoting feminist ideals, that men are really the ones who are going to change…

I also think the point is that good, enjoyable sex doesn't always have to result in orgasm. When orgasm ends up being the overarching goal that eclipses the rest of the experience, sex becomes a mad dash to the finish, and who wants that? Feeling like you have to make the other person orgasm, or get there yourself…

For shits and giggles, I googled the meaning of this guy's name to see what indeed a Shadrack McGill actually is, and the literal translation is "By command of the Moon God (the Babylonian God Aku) Son of the Stranger". I feel like there's a joke here, but I'm not creative enough to bring it home. Someone help me…

ugh, this reminds me of a conversation I had at breakfast sunday morning with my mom and this supremely hot guy friend I've shagged a few times who stayed the weekend. My mom started going off on how she used to be 95 pounds. Had we been alone, I would have put the kabosh on this conversation and told her to be proud…

Jello. Definitely shaped like Jello. Or a hole.

Honey, are you by yourself, or are there other people around? If you're alone, is there someone you can call? Here is a number for a depression/suicide hotline in the US (I'm not sure where you're located. If you're in another country, you can probably search online for a similar service) Even though I don't think…

Amazing

Yeah, it's different than upspeak. If you download the podcast referenced in the article, around the 4 1/2 minute mark is an example of what they're talking about.

I don't care one way or the other about the sex advice in this column, I find it usually pretty entertaining to read. However, I find the advocation of the abuse of medication, especially drugs with high rates of addiction such as benzos, to be made recklessly and in poor taste.

Oh my god, anyone who is having a rough day needs to watch the video at the end. It just made my life. Thank you for posting this, and for the possible loss of all of my relationships as I just spammed everyone in my address book with this link.