Also most people have a fair amount of sex before marriage. So any major incompatibility would presumably come out at that time. I know that having kids changes libido for a lot of women b/c they are just freaking tired.

Except that if you have kids and property together and your husband comes to you out of the blue and expresses a desire for an open marriage when that was not the original agreement, I can see feeling very pressured to accept it to just not rock the boat or hurt the kids. A lot of what I’ve observed with…

I’m so over the “haterz “ thing. You post something publicly and people voice disapproval? Welcome to, um, life?

The language this guy uses reminds me a lot of my drug and alcohol clients, things just happen, he had to do it, totally externalizing the locus of control.

I think the pervasive aroma of “The heart wants what it wants, what can you do?” is what bothers me about this guy. I want a million dollars and a torrid affair with Colin Farrell but I live with the disappointment.

I didn’t mean to bum you out! lol I wouldn’t really advise any woman to get married these days though. Just too much of a pain in the ass if it doesn’t work out, especially if you live in a state that wants to drag you through hell sideways before they deign to let you divorce.

Oh I found out in April about all this actually. I was just hoping the hack would have his email. He’s been unfaithful for at least 2 years that I know of and financially gaslighting me for God knows how long. I’m working on the legal aspect but we live in a crappy state for divorce.

You want to hear a funny one? After I found all the AM emails (b/c the dummy logged me into his account b/c he is technologically incompetent and couldn’t figure out how to print from gmail) I tried making a profile with an old email looking for his age, etc just to see if he would bite. My email got outed, his…

My husband could have written this. The only reason he never connected with anyone on AM is his social awkwardness. So he goes to callgirls instead. He has a lot to say about my faults but I’ve been doing the majority of the childcare while working as well as being his sounding board and social buffer. I’d like to…

My husband could have written this. I literally think the only reason he never connected with anyone on AM is b/c he’s so socially awkward he can’t even deal with that level of interaction so he does callgirls instead. I’d like to hear what this guy’s wife has to say—I know my husband has a lot to say about my faults…

I like Tamar best of the women in the Old Testament and wish there was a holiday where we all dressed up as temple prostitutes and hung around crossroads.

The Jews are Always Blonde sounds like the name of some sort of noir thriller.

The Flame and the Flower starts with a rape and then the “hero” is a dick to the heroine for most of the book b/c he feels like she tricked him into marriage or something. I remember reading it even as a kid and feeling like it was a lot of dickbaggery for a very tiny romantic payoff at the end.

Edward was always the quiet one. Seems quite happy in his marriage though for a while everyone said he was gay. I guess he still could be and still be happy if it’s all out in the open and his wife is OK with it.

Well but if they had thrown him out of the line of succession they would have had Andrew who liked to date nude models. I think he could have pushed it but a lot of it went back to how he was raised to value duty and obedience, and the fact that Prince Phillip is rumored to have been a shitty and abusive father.

And they really look so darn happy together just puttering around at events and with their dogs and horses and garden. Charles is a putterer and Diana just wasn’t. She wanted to go to nightclubs and shit.

I think Charles really thought that it was all understood that they were doing the royal marriage of convenience thing and either he never explicitly made that clear to Diana, or she just refused to actually hear it. It’s quite possible that he just assumed that she knew the deal and then was shocked after the wedding…

No but I think they were up for some job in the new governor’s administration because some guys came by about a security clearance while I was out. I legitimately just got busy and forgot to call them but I had nothing to say really other than “well they have a lot of parties.” It’s not like we talk.

What on earth has she done that makes anyone want to hear from her, other than set the FBI on someone who thought she was a friend? I hate when these utter ignoramuses suddenly get all this attention because the media decides that they’re somehow significant. I care less about who she wants to be President than I care…

Lions aren’t even that hard to kill. Go into the Sundeban on foot, alone, with nothing but a rifle and get a tiger and ....well, I won’t be “impressed” exactly because I don’t believe in trophy hunting but at least I’ll recognize that you have some skill.