I am a straight man and I am completely in love with Bob Odenkirk. I don't feel any inappropriate feelings about it. His talent justifies it.
you're missing what i'm saying. I'm saying that by treating that cis performance as something which needs to be fought is the problem. You end up spending time focusing on that perspective, thinking in terms of that performance instead of generating a new context which cares nothing for that perspective/mass…
If it wasn't relevant, the "cis straightstream" (btw that's a pretty badass phrase) wouldn't love it. Obviously it's relevant. It's made by a very popular artist and is already widely played and loved. Ignoring the implications or widely played and loved songs because "you can't stop them" doesn't change a thing.…
they assume that maleness and clothedness is "strength" and that femaleness and nakedness is "weakness" and "objectification" when the men in this video are acting more feminine than the genetic women. These are assumptions that come from the straight world, which both inhibit and facilitate different sexualities on…
this is why I can't stand tired-ass movement politics.
Any intelligent person would see that I meant that a New Detroit would rise from this tragedy and not a fictional cyborg cop.
"I love Detroit, I know a ton of people who love Detroit. It's a twisted love that runs the gamut of emotions: Joy, disappointment, hurt, anger, fear, elation, delight, apprehension, courage, resentment, cynicism, stubbornness, optimism and confusion."
this comment will be tough to beat.
This thread wins all the things!
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Jesus. +1
You win the Internet!!!!
i'm assuming that even after you talk to this person, their inner attitudes will not change, and so they will be putting you down (as a non-fitness person) continually in that same way. If that occurs, you shouldn't have to tolerate it, and if they keep doing it it will eventually cause friction, because who wants…
Sooo... your solution to relationship problems (friendship, in this case) is to never talk to the other person about what's bothering you, because that's trying to "change" them? Because that's all the OP advocated from what I can see, talking. The OP didn't say to refuse to take no for an answer and bug them until…
Who is that wiggly-tongued woman? She's so '80s fabulous.
Agreed. I hate this attitude that someone has to be either THE GREATEST PERSON EVAR or else THE EMBODIMENT OF EVERYTHING WRONG IN THE UNIVERSE.
Just stop hanging out with them because of all things for the love of god DO NOT FALL INTO THE I NEED TO CHANGE YOU TRAP. That is even worse, because that means you are going to be fighting her self-shame (that's right) about her body with your self-shame (that's right) about losing her approval. Guess who's going to…