You are everything that’s wrong with America. Nobody is interested in hearing your fantasy football stories. Do you also have a bad beat poker story to tell?

what do you think

This whole thing is a bit too underhanded for my liking.

I haven't seen this many pissed off Iowans since Kirk Ferentz was retained as head coach in 2006, 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014, and 2015.

This is fucking disgusting. There’s Little League Softball?

The important thing to note is that you don’t need to spend hours on exercise when you’re on a diet.

The problem with cheating is more than the act of having sex with another person. It's the lying, the deceitfulness, sneaking around, and treating someone you're suppose to love and have taken vows with like they don't matter. So, no, I have no empathy for people like that.

The reason people dislike cheating is because of empathy. They are empathetic to the person unknowingly getting cheated on.

Just from some of the quotes from her side of the story, I can see that it's almost certainly not a normal, healthy poly relationship

"Yeah, I think the fact that when he found out they didn't just call it quits and they found a way to make it work for both of them was particularly beautiful."

What I can't wrap my head around is the: my husband can't have sex because of his medical condition- except for kink that I won't do, but I totally want to have sex with my husband.

I don't think it's very fair to say "most relationships would be better if they were non-monogamous to some extent." YOUR relationships might be better, and that's awesome. But that's not true for everyone. Some people are truly happy being monogamous.

I would be interested in getting her husband's perspective as well. I mean, maybe he is totally fine with it. But, there were a couple of moments here where it crossed my mind that he could be harboring some secret jealousy and resentment that he's burying because he doesn't want to lose her. It's impossible to know…

I don't consider this ethical non-monogamy. It's nice that, with her husband now aware of her other partners, he supports her lifestyle. That is indeed an open relationship. However, the fact that all her other partners are married - and probably NOT all telling their wives that they are seeing another woman - means…

Yeah, the other thing about this as I digest it a little is, you know, we're getting a side of the story here and we're getting it from the person who initiate the change and is the one actually going out there and banging other people. They present it as something that works for them but also as something the other…

I, on the other hand, I'm all for monogamy, I don't believe open relationships can work because of jealousy, insecurities which are fair common human emotions. But this article has really made me reconsider if they can work, as long as both people know what's going on, be honest with each other and realistic. This…

I'm judging her a little for sneaking around at first instead of getting her husband's permission, but better late than never. They have pretty much the same rules I would have in that situation:

For future reference we're swingers, we swing, we go to swinger's events. There are many names for the lifestyle and various activities/events, but we and the people that we know in the lifestyle prefer the term swinging.

This was a great interview, thank you so much for this.
I am poly/into open relationships (they're not the same thing) and some of my friends are too. I absolutely don't believe in monogamy. I believe it works in some specific cases, but I believe most relationships would be better if they were non-monogamous to some…

For future reference, calling it "swinging" makes it sound like 100 times creepier.