I’m not sure there’s a specifically gay male body-ideal. I think male/female body-ideals exist, which is what the media constantly shoves in our faces, and you shouldn’t buy into it. I’m personally not interested in shows where the people all look the same, nor am I interested in dating a guy whose stomach looks like…

These must be the same customers who need “a car” and pull into a dealership because they see a sign advertising: Free Hot Dogs and Balloons for the Kids!!! I see these advertisements and think “What kind of person spends 40K because a dealer is offering free hot dogs?”. Jesus.

I used to sell small home appliances many years ago, and wireless phones/devices later on. It’s shocking how many people don’t read/follow directions or maintain their stuff.

Or, you find someone who has the same fetish/fantasy and either A: you’re not attracted to them, or B: their version of the fetish/ fantasy is just off enough to where it doesn’t work. ~sigh~

Who gets into fights? Ever? I can’t recall a single incident in my entire life where I, or any anyone I know was in any type of situation that would require one to “fight”. It’s especially bizarre considering these are presumably wealthy adults in an upscale area. So trashy and weird.

But we’re 20 years older too. Doesn't it kind of equal out?

Hmmm... Well, I am excited about the new True Derective. We’ll see if he can still bring the sexy.

OMG -that movie. So good!!!

Vince Vaughn is pretty much spectacularly hot, though.

No, it does not sound like you were being mean. However, certain facial expressions and mannerisms during a heated/frustrating conversation can convey meanness. I wasn't there, so although it sounds like your response to this inconsiderate person was completely reasonable - there could possibly be more to the story.…

I am sorry for calling you mean, and saying that you sound insane. I shouldn't have done that. I was trying to lighten the conversation a bit, but my intended tone may not have come across. However, if you go back and re-read your posts, I think you will see a ton of insults towards me that really weren't necessary.

My…

Oh my god - you are like, the second meanest person I've ever encountered through Gawker/Kitchenette. You are funny, though. I like mean/funny people. Call me sometime.

Hi! No, I'm actually in Seattle, but thank you! I've met several very cool and smart people over the years through Gawker. Lots of great writers with tons of knowledge to share. I hope you get together. Have fun!

What are you even taking about at this point? I'm not a server and never have been. I don't care how much they do or don't get paid, and I'm not throwing any "tantrums" about it. My point is simple: If you purchase something at a restaurant, you have to tip. Are you even replying to the right person? You sound insane…

You're exactly right. I live in Seattle, where there is legislation happening right now to raise the minimum wage to $15/hr. People here who make $100k are like "whatever", but people who are already making $15/hr are PISSED at the idea that someone working at McDonald's will be getting paid the same as they are! It's…

The EMT can absolutely talk about his job. However, he's comparing his job to that of a food/beverage server (?!?) which is in no way relevant to what he does. We all agree that he should be getting paid waaaaay more than what he is. That's his problem. Why punish servers because of his shitty pay?

You sign on to the agreement any time you walk through the door of a bar or restaurant and order something. Everyone in America knows this. It's like good manners and politeness...a social agreement. It's the same as walking through a door and holding it open for the person behind you, or standing at the back of a…

It sounds really stressful to have an income based on whether or not people decide to give you money regardless of the work you do. And, those horrible people who unnecessarily put you through the ringer to make you "earn your tip", or people, like you mentioned, who simply don't want to tip, and make excuses not to.…

Thank you for the info! I do give the guys cases of beer sometimes...

Santa Fe sounds wonderful! I live in the Northwest, but have been considering Santa Fe as a place to move too. A gorgeous adobe style house with a yard of rocks and interesting plants sounds great. I come home from work now, and all I see are…

So, it sounds like your job should pay more. I agree. However, what you do for a living isn't relevant to another person's job. I partly agree that tipping is an outdated custom - particularly if the service isn't personalized. However, part of the social agreement of going to a restaurant is that you will tip. Until…