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You can't take the man out of the sexist culture because you're probably just going to drop him into another, different, sexist culture.

I don't mean to single you out, but when you and other commenters here say "asian men," are you aware of how huge and diverse asia is?

...and then they move on to white men with more of the same with racism tossed in. Please!

Do they realize that most men - of whatever ethnicity - have archaic, sexist attitudes? Cause they do. Not to defend Asian men, just to say that men in general tend to suck.

I know many white men who have those attitudes as well. I think this article does a great job of showing how the way Asian men are specifically oppressed plays into certain attitudes they may develop towards women, but most Asian men I know personally are progressive, thoughtful people. I know plenty of Asian women as…

I don't WANT my husband to run out on me, of course, but if his reasoning is that he's jealous of the kids, good fucking riddance.

95% of broken marriages... Rule of thumb: If you make up your statistics, you will always sound like an asshole.

All I could think was: If you cheat on your spouse, wouldn't they, if surveyed after knowledge of the adultery came to light, decide they love their kids more than the jackass whose clothes are currently being tossed out of the closest window? Or is that just me?

But can I use this as an excuse to appease my mother in law about me not wanting to "give her grand babies"?

my mom knows a woman who thinks the same thing. she told my mom that she loves her children but her husband comes first and she lives first and foremost for him and that it's how things should be and that if more women remembered that the world would be a better place. she also plucked her eyebrows out and draws them…

"And yet, I find that in about 95 percent of broken marriages, though the husband's the one that ran out on his wife, the wife loves her children more than she does her husband,"

I just withhold sex from my wife every time she hugs our daughter. Take that women!

Women can never win. If we don't love our kids enough, according to society's standards, we're horrible and we don't deserve to live. If we love out kids too much, according to this jackass, then we only need to blame ourselves if our husbands leave us. The patriarchy continues to do everything in its power to make…

These quotes make me wonder what kind of father Det Bowers is. If he has a problem with mothers giving a large amount of attention to their kids, how does he feel about fathers giving a large amount of attention to their kids, and how does he apply that mindset to his own children?

He must have a really fragile ego if he thinks a woman should love his dumbass more than her own fucking kids. Perhaps he's projecting?

You just ran him off. You paid more attention to your children than you did to him

When I married my wife I was getting 100% of her love and I was given her 100%. Now we have 2 kids and I'm only getting like 33% of her love, but I'm still giving her 100% of mine because fuck my kids. It only makes mathematical sense that I would cheat to make up for the missing 67%. MATH!

You don't get to decide which side of the coin is up when you call Anonymous on the flip.

something I'll never understand is how if a horrible psycho like this guy can find out all her info and her backers info etc etc and stalk her, how the cops can't do just the same to him? especially if they should in theory have more resources and professionals? I feel like the "cyber crimes are hard to pin down" line…