I am not sure if I'm going to get cats or dogs. I think I'd rather be a dog lady instead.

I found most of this roast to be unfunny...Samberg's weird fake insults came off as awkward to me but I guess it was a little funny. I liked Bill Hader's bit and that was pretty much all I cared for. I don't remember the last time a roast was funny on CC.

I don't embody any of that stereotype to these guys and I may even be too White for them in a weird way. According to most people they think I'm half White and half Mexican because none of us could possibly be light skinned. I've also been asked if I'm Italian because I'm light with dark hair. I'm usually not really…

Yup! I never understood that question. I always get "You're so pretty, why are you still single?" It's a really backhanded compliment that really isn't a compliment lol. I feel like they are telling me "You're pretty, so what is wrong with you and what should I know?" and usually I don't ever go on a date with these…

That's funny 'cause you sound kinda like me! I'd sometimes put "Looks like I may not be on here much longer considering the type of guys I attract" and then I'd go back and take that off haha. Yeah I am talking to a few guys left from there right now but Idk, we'll see how it goes. I just can't really focus on that…

You are making me realize that my skin color is probably working in my favor and that's a privilege I'm coming to really acknowledge as far as receiving messages. I'm lighter skinned and I think for some of the White men that message me that is a plus for them: Latina but someone that may be able to "pass"? I haven't…

It's kind of sad how jaded someone can be from dating online. I always wonder who these people are that find their spouse on there or even a boyfriend. My friend found her ex on there so I know people find a significant other, but I'm starting to realize there are other things that are working against me on there as…

I guess it did sound like I was sitting there with these guys after Date 2 saying "Um so like, what are we?". I don't see how I sounded depressed or blaming others, but I suppose it did sound like I was "asking" people to commit lol...

I never thought about it in terms of getting a job but I guess that is one way to look at it. I'm really happy I did this though because I learned about what worked and what didn't work for me and that'll help me with dating or meeting someone later on. I definitely took breaks the past 4 months or so and that helped…

Oh no, don't get me wrong, I don't NEED to find a boyfriend. I realized things don't work out and that's fine. I was more baffled by the way things ended with these people than anything else (also being mislead by the first person). I never asked anyone to commit, so I used a poor choice of words in my original…

I went through random emotions. One day I would say I'm gonna delete it, then the next day I change my mind, and that went on and on for months. When I first started to do it I thought it would just be a fun thing to do and then I found someone I liked and he ended up being a cheating asshole. Found someone else I…

Can we discuss how awful and draining online dating is? I just deleted my OkC account literally 6 minutes ago and I feel so much better. I've been doing online dating (I tried Craiglist first, the more creepy version of OkC) since January, yes 9 months of awkward first dates and about 2 could-have-been relationships…

Maybe I'm just being super mean but the 2nd one looks like something anyone can design on Word or another software where you can mess with fonts. She hired people to help her come up with that? I think she wasted money... She could have hired any one of us here and got the same result lol.

I've never known dreads to be "faddish". This makes no sense. I'm glad she's able to go to another school where she feels welcomed, but this is still bs.

Wow I've never heard of that book. Maybe I'll look into that. By the way, I'm not sure if it's in the doc I mentioned but I saw something at some point that mentions "panty trees" where they hang underwear of the women they raped/killed in bushes and trees. So not only will you get raped and probably murdered, but you…

What does it mean when you wake up at 10:30 and make breakfast and forget to eat later 'cause you're still full from your late breakfast and then you read Jezebel, do random chores around the house, think about all the things you have to do to apply to your doctoral programs before December, and then go pick up your…

If any of you are interested in learning more and you can get through a bit of Spanish, there is a documentary that explains what's going on and I found a link to it:

Assuming this IS a woman getting revenge for herself and other women, it was only a matter of time before something like this happened. You can only dismiss women being raped and murdered and disappearing for so long before some of them get fed up and take justice into their own hands. I'm not surprised that so many…

I don't see it as being the same thing 'cause I haven't posted my deepest darkest secrets on here so no, I don't feel like it's handing over letters and journals to someone on the internet. That being said, I don't know what you posted on here that you feel uncomfortable about so I can see maybe why you would wanna…

I just read in the Help section that you can't delete your account. Just type in a bunch of letters and numbers without memorizing it and log out.