Two things: I think you’re being hyperbolic here - the point was that the FUCKING MORONS who stand in line and begin contemplating their palate only upon being asked what they’d like to have are insufferable and should suffer mocking and threats of physical violence when they fuck up access to booze for people who are…

It’s comments like this that reaffirm that so many bartenders have an inflated sense of self-importance. If a customer has their order ready, but when you inform them that it’s unavailable, do you really expect them to have a “backup” order? Yes, the customer should be ready to order. But if tell them that you’re out…

Having deflowered more than one person through no planning of my own, I would seriously question anyone who was doing it on purpose. That is some underwhelming sex if you aren’t in it for the long run. I prefer a skilled slut any day of the week.

No, feminism is about determining who is and isn’t a feminist, as if it was the cool table in a junior high cafeteria.

That might be your experience, but it hasn’t been mine. My most healthy relationships, hands down, were with men who were open about their feminism.

So... now what? As a male feminist should I not refer to myself as such because some other douchebag uses it as a ploy?

That’s awfully blunt and unfair. I know many men who are very passionate feminists, and have attended panels on feminism in media, criticized their friends for sexist language, and so on.

There’s no reason to infer them being propped up as saviors, not outside your personal delusions at least. The reason people pay attention when a man calls himself feminist is that there are very loud voices on the other side, men being aggressively anti-feminist, so seeing someone different helps the view that the…

I mean, who you message on a dating profile is your business. But for me, I like to broadcast that I believe strongly in feminism, and I’ve found it to be a good trait in partners when they feel the same way.

Why do you feel that way? I put my political views in my dating profiles. No reason to waste my time with someone whose worldview I disagree with, and it’s much more relevant than the movies they like.

So glad you’re the gatekeeper of who is qualified to calm themselves a feminist.

Maybe? I guess it depends on what you define as “going out of his way.” Like, if a guy bought a billboard to display his feminist street cred, yeah, that’d be questionable. But I think it’d be a normal thing for a guy to say, mention in a conversation about feminism or put in a dating profile.

So this is really about your insecurity.

And here I thought feminism was for equality for both sexes.

“You can say you support feminism. But don’t say you’re an actual feminist.”

So white men can’t be feminist, but black men can? Asian men can? Wow... How about who ever believes men and women are equal and should be treated in society as such is a feminist.

James Deen is certainly not a feminist, I totally agree. But that doesn’t mean that a lot of other men (even white men) aren’t.

What is with these women who think that every waste that comes from their bodies is a blessing from the goddess? Yes, I know not all women think like this. I, for one, don’t think my waste or the bacterial infection that invades my body is the most awesome and beautiful thing ever.

Ok. Get back to us when it’s your multimillion dollar contract he’d fucking with.

I was with you until the end.