Pregnancy is a crazy, marvelous, scary thing. And science hasn’t made it that much easier yet. That’s why I hate it when people complain about women gushing about motherhood and pregnancy. Do they even know how dangerous and crazy it is, and how blessed a woman must feel that everything worked out fine? Tons of shit…

I’m sorry. It won’t suck forever.

Just adding to the “internet hugs from random strangers” train.

I’m so sorry. That sounds just awful. :(

I’m really sorry to hear that. Internet hugs your way.

People don’t realize how often pregnancy just...doesn’t work out. For as fertile as every knocked up stranger seems....you never know how many women have to keep trying over and over just to see one through. You are most definitely not alone, and I’m sure you’ll get quite a few messages from commenters who have…

I'm so sorry. That is heartbreaking.

They will be okay. You are the focus right now. If not, get your ass back here for more hugs.

I’m so sorry. I’ve been there a number of times, and it just sucks, plain and simple. Please be kind to yourself in the coming days, and do exactly what works for you to get through it.

So many hugs. I’ve been there x7 and I know your feels like the back of my hand. I appreciate you having the bravery to share your heartache. So often we feel alone when we lose that little spark, whether or not it ever even had a chance, but so many of us can understand the island that you feel like you’re on.

I’m so sorry. That really fucking sucks :(

I’m very sorry :(

Oh, my darling. I am so sorry.

*large mug of homemade apple cider with rum*

I'm so sorry to hear that. I had an ectopic pregnancy myself several years ago. I wish I could hug you! Take care of yourself and be well! It gets better.

That is terrible. So sorry from over here. I know how attached you can get right away. We should all be more honest about how hard all of this is and just share. It won’t take away the pain but you know you aren’t alone.

Oh no, that is so hard. I’m sorry.

I'm so sorry, that's such a terrible thing to go through.

Oh goshes I’m sorry.

I’m so sorry. Those are so damn hard.